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These people are lower than a snake's belly. Their personal and vitriolic attacks are a stark contrast to the measured, detailed, meticulous arguments of 'our side'. I'm so sorry that you're having to face the brunt of their bile but it's because you're such a threat to their house of cards. We know you to be a man of principle, integrity and immense courage whose support for women will never be forgotten. I'll gladly contribute to any legal funds and do whatever I can to help show these disgraceful bullies up for who they are. Take good care.

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Consider doing a fundraiser for this case. A lot of people will want to show support.

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Graham, if you litigate, I'll contribute, but I suspect there is a deliberate effort to use up your energy and resources on things that, in the end, don't really matter. Anyone following these AGPs and handmaidens have already formed their opinions, and anyone who hasn't just has to read your work or watch your Mess on YouTube to know the truth. Those fuckers know you care passionately about this fight, they know you will stand your ground, and they want to get you fighting on too many fronts.

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Grace is not a name for this despicable vile man. I've wiped better than him off my shoe. You on the other hand are the just the loviest man and everyone you meet is lifted by it. 😘

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Superficial cosmetic alterations do not disguise male violence. But they do illustrate how shallow, vain and narcisstic Western societies have become.

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I love the term "Vichy feminism." Perfect!

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"Grace" can come after me any time he likes, because I believe the same as you, Graham. It'll be fun getting the court to explain how wrong he is more than once.

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Graham, can I just say you have my support all the way. But I wonder whether you miight dig yourself into a big hole by going to court over this. I was reminded of the Mess when Kate and Bev from LGB Alliance joined you. They said they just don't respond when they are called bigots etc. They have a much bigger fight and they don't want to be distracted in this way. Is Grace doing this just to get a rise out of you? Take care of yourself, please.

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I find 'Grace' Lavery utterly terrifying.

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Please take care of yourself Graham. We need you! I will happily contribute to a crowdfunder if that’s what you decide to do but consider just ignoring them. This might be a tactic to overwhelm you.

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Support you all the way Graham.

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Christ that's horrific! Sick fuck.

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The bit about "Grace's" difficulties in grooming kids on the QT using Zoom interested me because back in the mid 80's similar left wing/progressive/ or whatever they like to call themselves types had a hidden curriculum at the school I was teaching at for the equivalent then of PSHE. Thus Year 7's were to be taught about oral sex - just one example. No parental consultation and no colleagues consultation. undertaken. They professed to be teaching one thing while teaching another. When the HOD and others discovered this it was knocked on the head- thankfully. Today they can be more open about it but not too open. Very unsavoury people then and even more so now. The Gender/Trans /or whatever debate sometimes seems to me to be largely about who sticks what in who and where and when - not protecting/supporting people who have undergone or are undergoing medical interventions. The words unstable, mentally disturbed, lascivious, seedy, sordid and sleazy come to mind when being forced to think about these people. It is rather like falling into a sewer. I thought social media was bad but Graham's Update has pointed out a whole alternate universe of cess pit dwellers.

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Is this the rather sad jump on a lawsuit for any and everything tactic that happens in the US? I am worried about you Graham. It appears as they are coordinating and are baiting and trying to push you. I hope you can rest, take time away from this, and not let their poison affect you as much as they are stating they wish to.

Reporting to Twitter seems pointless and the platforms are failing to address any of this with any urgency.

Go on, have a cup of tea :-)

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I like that you put 'Grace' in inverted commas..utterly vile disturbing man.

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I’m so sorry you have to go through this graham

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