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"A year into the relationship, she discovered that he had a proclivity for wearing women’s clothing and he expressed his intention to fully transition."

My grandfather (God Rest His Soul) once imparted a piece of wisdom to me when he cautioned that one should never, ever under any circumstances stick your dick in crazy and what he meant by that was it’s never, ever under any circumstances a good idea to initiate a romantic or even sexual relationship with a person suffering from or dealing with a mental illness and for women this advice can be modified as never let crazy stick it’s dick in you.

It starts with him demanding validation by forcing her to play along with his delusion which, in and of itself, is an unreasonable demand - and that’s the best case scenario even though this is a violation of her sexual boundaries and an attempt to trap her in a “lesbian” relationship if you accept the premise that transwomen are women.

The worst is he forces her to act out degrading or violent porn inspired sex.

This is the part where it becomes clear to her that his ever escalating peccadilloes have now blossomed into a full blown mental illness that is putting her in danger, possibly even her being killed, and however slight that chance may be fragile, high-maintenance people are an irritant in life, especially being in a relationship with one.

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