“What It Feels Like For A Girl To Be Erased By A Sick Male ‘Rights’ Movement” is the programme BBC actually should be making. My prediction? This disturbed man, who fantasizes about murder, will never get his show off the ground. The public has no appetite for this. It’s a no go. And to think the cultists at BBC are spending hard earned taxpayer money on an opportunistic criminal, and selling it as cutting edge human rights!
I think it's further than that now. They appear to be so addled that they were steered in that direction initially and now are doing all this propagandising for themselves. The billionaires must be chuckling. What a return on investment! The BBC took it and ran with it, gleefully and full bore. They are so keen to be seen as 'on the right side of history' they no longer need to be paid, so deep in the delusion are they. Trans 'rights' activists must be seeded everywhere, with everyone having a 'trans' kid and too many too keen to not stand out. Then the BBC LGBTQUISTION inhouse groups threaten and coerce and write very upset affronted letters demanding action if anything veers slightly away from applauding their every breath.
I've been watching the BBC imploding for a few years. Still they seem clueless as to why they were and are still losing support. Glad they are so keen not to have us women watch or be represented at all, and all in favour of platforming this vile ghoul who has the narcissist's excuse for every vile thing he's done and is still doing.
Preliminary results of 34 trans widows' experiences. Please visit YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen for info on the survey I call "20 Questions for a Trans Widow" and urge any woman who divorced a crossdresser to tell enough for me to collect data. No one in the world is doing so.
Of 34 women who left a relationship with a crossdresser:
14 of us report living in financial distress after the split (most with children & no support)
13 of us have been coerced/urged/convinced to "use a strap on for sex role play"
1 woman suffered damage to her C-Section scar in the above rough sex
5 of us were raped when he decided "his clit" was actually a penis and it's his turn
12 of us were vilified/defamed on social media or in documents submitted to court in the divorce
It goes on and on. Dr. James Cantor has already commented that he does not regard any of my data as valid, despite his study of only 25 convicted child sexual molesters.
I seek to get hundreds of responses to this survey. Collating it into data makes it possible to read the stories of trans widows. Ute Heggen, author, In the Curated Woods, True Tales from a Grass Widow
That’s a shame. I expect highly educated people to be professional and evidence based in what they do. This area is desperately in need of more research- don’t give up
I will not give up. They haven't even tried to do confidential interviews of women who stayed, focused on their experiences. They haven't done follow up on whether the marriages are still together 7 years later, whether the dude detransitioned, as one case I know of, where he went on to marry 3 more times, father more children, not pay child support and then completely detransition. (California, where else?) Thanks! Please pass the word about Trans Widow Ute Heggen YouTube channel!
Will do. Women can’t rely on men to do this. Much easier for them to focus on other men. They have understanding innate to men. Try asking them to help you eg by finding a suitable phd student and suitable supervision for that person?
The entire field of "trans sexology" is rife with corruption. Helen Joyce is now saying she does not believe there is any such thing as "true trans" because all of it is socially constructed social contagion. I know my ex, Neddy, was happier before he decide he had to go down this path rather than get quality psychotherapy to deal with his father's physical abuse and unrelatable personality, along with his mother's abdication in which she allowed it all to happen. While she did not have agency, she had clergy to turn to, she had relatives of his and hers and when it's your child, you must muscle up and just do it. Thanks
If I remember rightly, his prison sentence was for robbing and battering a john, while he was in prostitution. Which in my view is entirely justified and by far the best thing he's ever done. In a just society the guy trying to buy sexual consent would be the one in prison (or executed) and the prostitution victim would be helped to escape. It's just a shame that since then, he's been going on about prostitution as empowering and all that rubbish, and minimising the abuses of the punters and pimps, while painting feminists as the enemy when we've been campaigning against the industry forever.
i agree that soliciting sex should be illegal, but it's a bit much to approve of people being beaten or executed - especially in response to an OP objecting against the violence of a TRA.
I'm fine with people doing whatever they have to do to defend themselves against rapists. Ideally that should be done within the legal system and after a fair trial but I'd never condemn someone like Paris Lees or Aileen Wuornos or Cyntoia Brown. The problem I have with Lees is that he still promotes and glamorises the sex industry and is effectively helping the pimps to to groom people into it.
prostitution isn't rape though is it. redefining words like this is the type of hyperbole that TRAs have learnt from radical feminism and now turned back against women. Are you seriously saying you don't condemn a serial killer of six people?
The vast majority of prostitutes are forced into it, on average at age 13, and the rest wouldn't give consent if they weren't getting paid. That isn't really consent at all. The entire industry is rendered obsolete by the customers just having a consensual hookup with someone, or having a wank by themselves, but they'd rather subject the victims to horrific abuses. Some of the stories coming out of the brothels are grotesque and wouldn't be out of place in a torture camp. I've heard testimonies of victims directly, I've known friends who've been trafficked, and I know what it does to people. Have a look at some of these testimonies and statistics yourself and see if you believe it's not rape after you've read those. I don't condemn a rape victim who fought back, and in doing so probably saved thousands of future victims. She should've got a medal, not the death penalty.
Of course, it shouldn't have had to come to that. Like I say, the justice system and social services should have dealt with the problem long before she had to take matters into her own hands, but in the context of a culture where the prostitution industry is rife and the victims ignored and the perpetrators generally allowed to run amok, it's entirely understandable and commendable.
It's also worth mentioning that 62% of murders of trans people in 2022 were committed by johns and pimps. It's so strange to me that TRAs seem to be in favour of "sex work" when its customers and bosses are responsible for killing so many of them.
yes it's horrific. A great deal of the murders seem to be by pimps who kill their drug-addicted workers when they are deemed past it and no longer profitable. Largely the UK hasn't descended to this level of violence thank goodness.
some prostitutes are trafficked or forced into it by pimps. others choose to do it either because they are desperate for money or because they find it better paid than other work. Your heroic serial killer had a very bad upbringing but no one forced her to be a prostitute. Her motive for killing those people was robbery.
This is beyond atrocious. But will anybody but GCs and a few TRAs see this article? We have to quit being so insulated, with our Substack articles and Twitter threads that few beyond GCs see. Has this article been sent to mainstream media outlets? I often address things like this to those outlets' Twitter accounts, but then MY Twitter account starts to act funny and I get shadow-banned and can't 'Like' things bcuz Twitter thinks I'm naughty. I'm sick of the preaching to the choir. BBC must be stopped from giving this evil sociopath a platform!
I don't mind him having a platform, but they never put the other side or challenge him on any of it. When's the last time you heard a prostitution abolitionist or Nordic Model advocate on the BBC?
Graham, Thank you so much for keeping us informed on the violent tendencies and ideation of men in drag. In the face of the lies, slander and outrageous smears your courage and integrity is inspiring to all of us.

Betsy Warrior
Jun 28·edited Jun 29
Having spent my life working to stop violence against women I see the transgender tsunami though the particular lens of how this male supremacist movement is battering down every safety tradition built up over centuries, like single sex bathrooms, as well as initiatives instituted over just the last half century; like shelters for battered women and rape crises centers. I understand the long-term consequences on people's bodies from carcinogenic hormones and savage, sexual surgeries and the suffering and expense that entails for those succumbing to gender propaganda, but the immediacy of women's lack of refuge from male violence grabs my attention also. Yet the transgender movement directs our attention away from this ever-present danger of violence against women and girls and demands that we refocus our attention onto the pseudo-violence of "misgendering" female imposters.
It's one thing to take note of the violence that transgender people experience, but where is the reciprocal concern for the violence women and girls suffer at the hands of transgender people. While the violence sustained by transgenders is usually visited on them by other trans males or average men there are also thousands of trans males who kill, rape, assault, stalk, and threaten women with such actions, as well as job loss, loss of reputation and more. Serial killers, rapists, et al like Marcel Harvey, Dana Rivers, Douglas Donna Perry, Ted Kaczinsky, Richard Speck, Haddon Clark, Archie Tally, Darrell Marager, Allison Hale, Robert Kosilek and numerless others, but there is no female equivalent who kill, rape and threaten trans males in this wholesale fashion. Yet you never hear a male in womanface plead for a stop to the threats, murders and rapes of women by trans males. So why are women always placating trans men with declarations of their undying sympathy, empathy for the hurts trans suffer at the hands of other men? Fear? An indifference to, or trivialization of the much more severe and numerous attacks on women? Why aren't women acknowledging the disproportionate hate and violence trans males inflict on females?!?
That's a whole area that needs a whole lot of investigation. All that 'just admin' that happened without an open debate - which is why so many of these very violent men are so outraged at attempts to stop their boundary violating behaviours now. And they all have the bits of papers that they claim now 'prove' they are women when that legal lie has backed us all in a corner. They WERE getting away with it for so long and so many edges were blurred. It's almost as if governments were hoping publics wouldn't notice.
Just watched a clip of a well known invader of women's sports on Trevor Noah's show. He stated that because he has 'female' on his documents & that he is not a cyborg but biological, he argued that he was indeed a biological female. The absolute audacity.
Indeed. This is my gut reaction to that - he can f**k right off. Papers shmapers. We all know it's a box ticking pandering to nuttiness that our National Executives are now denying knowledge of and pretending nothing to see here. Oh why not let them say what they like and rubber stamp their fetish, what's the harm. What a can of worms they opened then liberally chucked about. No he's not a cyborg, just a very plain, boring old MAN. Just because you aren't a biological woman doesn't make you a cyborg. Or a rabbit. Or a block of plastic. Were they ill during logic classes? Because women are women I must be too says the egotistical man? They are stupid as well as delusional. No, no, no. No. Sod yer papers and yer forms. Often there are mistakes on forms too - it doesn't make them accurate or a real reflection of reality either.
For anyone that has lived in a regime or state where you have to 'show your papers' it leaves you with a sense of something. I haven't, but my grandmother did, and so I know the impact on her. She was forced to give up her nationality when older as a condition of one passport and was losing part of herself. On my other side I had a relative who found themselves in a position (war) where they had to 'prove' who they were in the midst of all that. Then there was some doubt many years later over his right to travel on certain documents and the cogs of state wheels not seeming to care what he had done for that highly bureaucratic state. It's happening now with people fleeing to stand a chance of staying alive and these narcissist liars are selfishly claiming this delusional state of unreality.
And why is it now legit malignant psychopath week this week, next week and every bloody week now at the BBC. Who appear to have been lobotomised. Don't have nightmares!
I suspect because the people literally running the show are yet another batch of up-and-coming, entitled young perverts from privilege, raised on the internet. I can’t believe I’m actually saying that, but they seem to have infected everything.
Yes. I'm all for a bit of evolution and reform - but not what whatever this is. It's not progress, it's whatever 'progressive' has come to mean which seems to be coercive. Out with the old in with the new old. They've thrown the baby out with the bathwater. I know there were cuts and drastic changes a while back, but that still doesn't explain how anyone over say about 35 has totally capitulated to those under that age who know very little and think turning everything on its head - 'queering' everything' is somehow fun. It's like 20 year old special advisors now run everything. How do Stonewall and their ilk still have their pincers in it. It's a storm of too stupid and too many unwilling to stop the too stupid. Then claiming anyone against this wholesale destruction and before our eyes, is somehow a Tory/bigot/right wing/left wing/pick your slur.
It’s only a small band of trollish misogynists and technocrats, too. The good news is that as soon as people find out what it’s really about, they reject it, with prejudice. We’re simply not putting up with it.
Paris sold himself to creepy men when he was a teenager. I’d say he’s pretty messed up. Also, his passport might say he’s female, but his hips say he’s a man.
The Male Violence is such a give away isn't it.
“What It Feels Like For A Girl To Be Erased By A Sick Male ‘Rights’ Movement” is the programme BBC actually should be making. My prediction? This disturbed man, who fantasizes about murder, will never get his show off the ground. The public has no appetite for this. It’s a no go. And to think the cultists at BBC are spending hard earned taxpayer money on an opportunistic criminal, and selling it as cutting edge human rights!
My suspicion is that they're using money they were given by the rich men sponsoring transgenderism. For those big bucks, they'll produce anything.
I think it's further than that now. They appear to be so addled that they were steered in that direction initially and now are doing all this propagandising for themselves. The billionaires must be chuckling. What a return on investment! The BBC took it and ran with it, gleefully and full bore. They are so keen to be seen as 'on the right side of history' they no longer need to be paid, so deep in the delusion are they. Trans 'rights' activists must be seeded everywhere, with everyone having a 'trans' kid and too many too keen to not stand out. Then the BBC LGBTQUISTION inhouse groups threaten and coerce and write very upset affronted letters demanding action if anything veers slightly away from applauding their every breath.
I've been watching the BBC imploding for a few years. Still they seem clueless as to why they were and are still losing support. Glad they are so keen not to have us women watch or be represented at all, and all in favour of platforming this vile ghoul who has the narcissist's excuse for every vile thing he's done and is still doing.
Paris Lees, I think, not Paris Hilton.
Yes - definitely Lees
Preliminary results of 34 trans widows' experiences. Please visit YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen for info on the survey I call "20 Questions for a Trans Widow" and urge any woman who divorced a crossdresser to tell enough for me to collect data. No one in the world is doing so.
Of 34 women who left a relationship with a crossdresser:
14 of us report living in financial distress after the split (most with children & no support)
13 of us have been coerced/urged/convinced to "use a strap on for sex role play"
1 woman suffered damage to her C-Section scar in the above rough sex
5 of us were raped when he decided "his clit" was actually a penis and it's his turn
12 of us were vilified/defamed on social media or in documents submitted to court in the divorce
It goes on and on. Dr. James Cantor has already commented that he does not regard any of my data as valid, despite his study of only 25 convicted child sexual molesters.
I seek to get hundreds of responses to this survey. Collating it into data makes it possible to read the stories of trans widows. Ute Heggen, author, In the Curated Woods, True Tales from a Grass Widow
What would Cantor regard as valid?
Anything he and the 3 Musketeers of Sex published. His interview with Sasha and Stella is mostly word salad.
That’s a shame. I expect highly educated people to be professional and evidence based in what they do. This area is desperately in need of more research- don’t give up
I will not give up. They haven't even tried to do confidential interviews of women who stayed, focused on their experiences. They haven't done follow up on whether the marriages are still together 7 years later, whether the dude detransitioned, as one case I know of, where he went on to marry 3 more times, father more children, not pay child support and then completely detransition. (California, where else?) Thanks! Please pass the word about Trans Widow Ute Heggen YouTube channel!
Will do. Women can’t rely on men to do this. Much easier for them to focus on other men. They have understanding innate to men. Try asking them to help you eg by finding a suitable phd student and suitable supervision for that person?
The entire field of "trans sexology" is rife with corruption. Helen Joyce is now saying she does not believe there is any such thing as "true trans" because all of it is socially constructed social contagion. I know my ex, Neddy, was happier before he decide he had to go down this path rather than get quality psychotherapy to deal with his father's physical abuse and unrelatable personality, along with his mother's abdication in which she allowed it all to happen. While she did not have agency, she had clergy to turn to, she had relatives of his and hers and when it's your child, you must muscle up and just do it. Thanks
If I remember rightly, his prison sentence was for robbing and battering a john, while he was in prostitution. Which in my view is entirely justified and by far the best thing he's ever done. In a just society the guy trying to buy sexual consent would be the one in prison (or executed) and the prostitution victim would be helped to escape. It's just a shame that since then, he's been going on about prostitution as empowering and all that rubbish, and minimising the abuses of the punters and pimps, while painting feminists as the enemy when we've been campaigning against the industry forever.
i agree that soliciting sex should be illegal, but it's a bit much to approve of people being beaten or executed - especially in response to an OP objecting against the violence of a TRA.
I'm fine with people doing whatever they have to do to defend themselves against rapists. Ideally that should be done within the legal system and after a fair trial but I'd never condemn someone like Paris Lees or Aileen Wuornos or Cyntoia Brown. The problem I have with Lees is that he still promotes and glamorises the sex industry and is effectively helping the pimps to to groom people into it.
prostitution isn't rape though is it. redefining words like this is the type of hyperbole that TRAs have learnt from radical feminism and now turned back against women. Are you seriously saying you don't condemn a serial killer of six people?
The vast majority of prostitutes are forced into it, on average at age 13, and the rest wouldn't give consent if they weren't getting paid. That isn't really consent at all. The entire industry is rendered obsolete by the customers just having a consensual hookup with someone, or having a wank by themselves, but they'd rather subject the victims to horrific abuses. Some of the stories coming out of the brothels are grotesque and wouldn't be out of place in a torture camp. I've heard testimonies of victims directly, I've known friends who've been trafficked, and I know what it does to people. Have a look at some of these testimonies and statistics yourself and see if you believe it's not rape after you've read those. I don't condemn a rape victim who fought back, and in doing so probably saved thousands of future victims. She should've got a medal, not the death penalty.
Of course, it shouldn't have had to come to that. Like I say, the justice system and social services should have dealt with the problem long before she had to take matters into her own hands, but in the context of a culture where the prostitution industry is rife and the victims ignored and the perpetrators generally allowed to run amok, it's entirely understandable and commendable.
It's also worth mentioning that 62% of murders of trans people in 2022 were committed by johns and pimps. It's so strange to me that TRAs seem to be in favour of "sex work" when its customers and bosses are responsible for killing so many of them.
yes it's horrific. A great deal of the murders seem to be by pimps who kill their drug-addicted workers when they are deemed past it and no longer profitable. Largely the UK hasn't descended to this level of violence thank goodness.
Paris wasn't alone with the murder victim. He had an accomplice, probably the man who was pimping him. Better to murder the pimp, surely?
Ah I didn't know that. That's a very good point, yes. It would have been better but people do desperate things when they're in that situation.
some prostitutes are trafficked or forced into it by pimps. others choose to do it either because they are desperate for money or because they find it better paid than other work. Your heroic serial killer had a very bad upbringing but no one forced her to be a prostitute. Her motive for killing those people was robbery.
Is the BBC fulfilling its mission. No.
This is beyond atrocious. But will anybody but GCs and a few TRAs see this article? We have to quit being so insulated, with our Substack articles and Twitter threads that few beyond GCs see. Has this article been sent to mainstream media outlets? I often address things like this to those outlets' Twitter accounts, but then MY Twitter account starts to act funny and I get shadow-banned and can't 'Like' things bcuz Twitter thinks I'm naughty. I'm sick of the preaching to the choir. BBC must be stopped from giving this evil sociopath a platform!
I don't mind him having a platform, but they never put the other side or challenge him on any of it. When's the last time you heard a prostitution abolitionist or Nordic Model advocate on the BBC?
Graham, Thank you so much for keeping us informed on the violent tendencies and ideation of men in drag. In the face of the lies, slander and outrageous smears your courage and integrity is inspiring to all of us.

Betsy Warrior
Jun 28·edited Jun 29
Having spent my life working to stop violence against women I see the transgender tsunami though the particular lens of how this male supremacist movement is battering down every safety tradition built up over centuries, like single sex bathrooms, as well as initiatives instituted over just the last half century; like shelters for battered women and rape crises centers. I understand the long-term consequences on people's bodies from carcinogenic hormones and savage, sexual surgeries and the suffering and expense that entails for those succumbing to gender propaganda, but the immediacy of women's lack of refuge from male violence grabs my attention also. Yet the transgender movement directs our attention away from this ever-present danger of violence against women and girls and demands that we refocus our attention onto the pseudo-violence of "misgendering" female imposters.
It's one thing to take note of the violence that transgender people experience, but where is the reciprocal concern for the violence women and girls suffer at the hands of transgender people. While the violence sustained by transgenders is usually visited on them by other trans males or average men there are also thousands of trans males who kill, rape, assault, stalk, and threaten women with such actions, as well as job loss, loss of reputation and more. Serial killers, rapists, et al like Marcel Harvey, Dana Rivers, Douglas Donna Perry, Ted Kaczinsky, Richard Speck, Haddon Clark, Archie Tally, Darrell Marager, Allison Hale, Robert Kosilek and numerless others, but there is no female equivalent who kill, rape and threaten trans males in this wholesale fashion. Yet you never hear a male in womanface plead for a stop to the threats, murders and rapes of women by trans males. So why are women always placating trans men with declarations of their undying sympathy, empathy for the hurts trans suffer at the hands of other men? Fear? An indifference to, or trivialization of the much more severe and numerous attacks on women? Why aren't women acknowledging the disproportionate hate and violence trans males inflict on females?!?
So many things to say but I'll just say quickly as my bed is calling me...how the heck do you get female on a passport without a GRC?
It must all come down to the person at the passport office who takes your application
That's a whole area that needs a whole lot of investigation. All that 'just admin' that happened without an open debate - which is why so many of these very violent men are so outraged at attempts to stop their boundary violating behaviours now. And they all have the bits of papers that they claim now 'prove' they are women when that legal lie has backed us all in a corner. They WERE getting away with it for so long and so many edges were blurred. It's almost as if governments were hoping publics wouldn't notice.
Just watched a clip of a well known invader of women's sports on Trevor Noah's show. He stated that because he has 'female' on his documents & that he is not a cyborg but biological, he argued that he was indeed a biological female. The absolute audacity.
Indeed. This is my gut reaction to that - he can f**k right off. Papers shmapers. We all know it's a box ticking pandering to nuttiness that our National Executives are now denying knowledge of and pretending nothing to see here. Oh why not let them say what they like and rubber stamp their fetish, what's the harm. What a can of worms they opened then liberally chucked about. No he's not a cyborg, just a very plain, boring old MAN. Just because you aren't a biological woman doesn't make you a cyborg. Or a rabbit. Or a block of plastic. Were they ill during logic classes? Because women are women I must be too says the egotistical man? They are stupid as well as delusional. No, no, no. No. Sod yer papers and yer forms. Often there are mistakes on forms too - it doesn't make them accurate or a real reflection of reality either.
For anyone that has lived in a regime or state where you have to 'show your papers' it leaves you with a sense of something. I haven't, but my grandmother did, and so I know the impact on her. She was forced to give up her nationality when older as a condition of one passport and was losing part of herself. On my other side I had a relative who found themselves in a position (war) where they had to 'prove' who they were in the midst of all that. Then there was some doubt many years later over his right to travel on certain documents and the cogs of state wheels not seeming to care what he had done for that highly bureaucratic state. It's happening now with people fleeing to stand a chance of staying alive and these narcissist liars are selfishly claiming this delusional state of unreality.
Think you've got an extra word here; autocomplete?
"Would it be impolite to ask why Paris [redacted] was in prison? "
Isn’t this toxic-transculinity? Violence is violence full stop.
Toxic transculinity = good one.
That right there is a legit malignant psychopath.
And why is it now legit malignant psychopath week this week, next week and every bloody week now at the BBC. Who appear to have been lobotomised. Don't have nightmares!
I suspect because the people literally running the show are yet another batch of up-and-coming, entitled young perverts from privilege, raised on the internet. I can’t believe I’m actually saying that, but they seem to have infected everything.
Yes. I'm all for a bit of evolution and reform - but not what whatever this is. It's not progress, it's whatever 'progressive' has come to mean which seems to be coercive. Out with the old in with the new old. They've thrown the baby out with the bathwater. I know there were cuts and drastic changes a while back, but that still doesn't explain how anyone over say about 35 has totally capitulated to those under that age who know very little and think turning everything on its head - 'queering' everything' is somehow fun. It's like 20 year old special advisors now run everything. How do Stonewall and their ilk still have their pincers in it. It's a storm of too stupid and too many unwilling to stop the too stupid. Then claiming anyone against this wholesale destruction and before our eyes, is somehow a Tory/bigot/right wing/left wing/pick your slur.
It’s only a small band of trollish misogynists and technocrats, too. The good news is that as soon as people find out what it’s really about, they reject it, with prejudice. We’re simply not putting up with it.
"Be kind."
Penis Sleaze.
How is it these tv programs always leave out the nasty stuff and think people won't do a quick google search?
Paris sold himself to creepy men when he was a teenager. I’d say he’s pretty messed up. Also, his passport might say he’s female, but his hips say he’s a man.
Not just hips...attitude, behaviour, posture, gait, voice, facial features, hands, stature.
Everything about him screams male....particularly his fantasies of killing, and in particular, killing children.
That should be a huge red flag that should have him locked away for children's safety.