I didn't want it to go straight into your inbox because of what it’s about, but we thought this piece by Genevieve Gluck on ‘sissy porn’ is important enough to cross-post here, on Feminist Current and Women Are Human.
If you’d told me five years ago that a prominent sitcom writer would be emailing me with the subject line ‘Sissy porn’ I would have...well...I’d probably have believed it, actually.
Just read the article, it was incredibly informative and well written. Loads of stuff I’ve kind of been aware of, but haven’t had the will to look further into.
Great article. I tend to use adult chats to to chat with internet friends I've had for years and the place has been utterly dominated by sissies/blackmail/caption/bimbos/forced frminisation/anime people for years now. In a place with thousands of people they are at least a half and a so many have anime pictures. They often present as women but once you've read about autogynephilia picking them out is child's play (oh what an interest paraphilia you have, Grandma..) anyway, annoying. My only consolation is it's men talking to men for men and they all have agp. Nobody is attracted to a sissy bar other agps. It's why the only women who engage with this stupidity are paid for it. Oh yeah and if you want a great example of the sissy to trans pipeline look up Larry watchowski (or however you spell it). All it took him was one mistress and millions of dollars and the director of matrix is making jupiter ascending in ten years ( ugh)
So much of this piece strikes a chord. Mistress. If never hear that word again for the rest of my life, I'll be a happier woman for it.
The poppers. When I was writing my story for transwidows voices (Philomena) I could smell the sickening mixture of amyl nitrate and silicone gadgets the whole time.
Jesus what a man addicted to that type of porn will do to a vulnerable woman's head. We are not human to them just those sex toys they think they want to be. Years later, I'm still finding bits of me he tore through and flung to the side - elemental bits I hadn't realized I was loping around without. I look back on stuff I wrote soon after I got out and it's all about trying to cobble back together some semblance of myself and hold it together with fuzzy cello tape. It's harrowing. To think how much more prevalent this has all become and how much suffering it is causing women is staggering.
Of all the organizations that are promoting that sinister letter calling to remove our representation, the one that really gets to me is Women's Aid. The chair of Women's Aid Ireland shared it on twitter "in solidarity" FFS. When I was totally isolated with my ex - we know isolation is key for them, just as it is for this whole movement which constantly insists we're nothing more than a tiny collection of loner weirdos - the women' aid hotline was often the only outside contact I had. I'd wait until he went out and I'd ring and cry and try to explain what was happening without being able to go into detail because of the shame. But it helped me to have them to talk to even if I couldn't articulate much, it helped A LOT. Imagine what the fcking chair of that organization sharing that letter has said to women trapped in the same situation. I know at least some of them are on twitter, they send me DMs. We need to keep making safe spaces for these women. I don't think it's an exaggeration to say it will save lives.
If you’d told me five years ago that a prominent sitcom writer would be emailing me with the subject line ‘Sissy porn’ I would have...well...I’d probably have believed it, actually.
Just read the article, it was incredibly informative and well written. Loads of stuff I’ve kind of been aware of, but haven’t had the will to look further into.
Great article. I tend to use adult chats to to chat with internet friends I've had for years and the place has been utterly dominated by sissies/blackmail/caption/bimbos/forced frminisation/anime people for years now. In a place with thousands of people they are at least a half and a so many have anime pictures. They often present as women but once you've read about autogynephilia picking them out is child's play (oh what an interest paraphilia you have, Grandma..) anyway, annoying. My only consolation is it's men talking to men for men and they all have agp. Nobody is attracted to a sissy bar other agps. It's why the only women who engage with this stupidity are paid for it. Oh yeah and if you want a great example of the sissy to trans pipeline look up Larry watchowski (or however you spell it). All it took him was one mistress and millions of dollars and the director of matrix is making jupiter ascending in ten years ( ugh)
Full of typos. My hands are too big for my phone. Guess that makes me an alpha, thank you jesus, thank you lord
keep the comments coming. I'm going to use them for a follow up.
great interview of a transwidow (not Jennifer) whose spouse was into sissyporn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Ny_PaUopys
wow - that was a beautiful interview - so comprehensive. Thanks for the link.
So much of this piece strikes a chord. Mistress. If never hear that word again for the rest of my life, I'll be a happier woman for it.
The poppers. When I was writing my story for transwidows voices (Philomena) I could smell the sickening mixture of amyl nitrate and silicone gadgets the whole time.
Jesus what a man addicted to that type of porn will do to a vulnerable woman's head. We are not human to them just those sex toys they think they want to be. Years later, I'm still finding bits of me he tore through and flung to the side - elemental bits I hadn't realized I was loping around without. I look back on stuff I wrote soon after I got out and it's all about trying to cobble back together some semblance of myself and hold it together with fuzzy cello tape. It's harrowing. To think how much more prevalent this has all become and how much suffering it is causing women is staggering.
Of all the organizations that are promoting that sinister letter calling to remove our representation, the one that really gets to me is Women's Aid. The chair of Women's Aid Ireland shared it on twitter "in solidarity" FFS. When I was totally isolated with my ex - we know isolation is key for them, just as it is for this whole movement which constantly insists we're nothing more than a tiny collection of loner weirdos - the women' aid hotline was often the only outside contact I had. I'd wait until he went out and I'd ring and cry and try to explain what was happening without being able to go into detail because of the shame. But it helped me to have them to talk to even if I couldn't articulate much, it helped A LOT. Imagine what the fcking chair of that organization sharing that letter has said to women trapped in the same situation. I know at least some of them are on twitter, they send me DMs. We need to keep making safe spaces for these women. I don't think it's an exaggeration to say it will save lives.
I feel so much for you. Your testimony was so brave and so important.
Thank you x
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDM43DUT2Ic&t=509s