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Mar 5, 2022Liked by mole at the counter

‘Hostile to their identity’... or trying to prevent vulnerable young girls with autism/anorexia/bdd/trauma from wrongly lopping healthy body parts off, having no sexual function or capacity to have children.

Absolutely disgusting.

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And young girls who have been told, directly and indirectly, that being attracted to other girls means they are a boy/man.

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Mar 5, 2022·edited Mar 5, 2022Liked by mole at the counter

"demystify top surgery" is a contradiction in terms.

It's mystifying breast mutilation by giving it a sanitised name like 'top surgery' in the first place.

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"It's dead. All the world has died while I slept. This world belongs to somebody else whom I don't know. Perhaps to the Groke. It isn't made for Moomins." - from "Moominland Midwinter" 1957, by author, illustrator Tove Jansson.

We have to wake up, re-enliven the world, and take it back from the "Woke".

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My mum got breast cancer three times in her 40s and 50s, it killed her soon after she reached 60. after one of her surgeries and a consultation, I walked into the room upon invitation by the doctor before my mum had had the chance to cover her scarring. This upset us both but I tried to pretend I was unphased, and not traumatised, by what my sweet brave stoic little mum was going through. her breasts represented her femininity, her ability to breastfeed and give nourishment to her children if she was able or wanted to, her oppression, her vulnerability, but no longer healthy she had no other choice.

My heart weeps and weeps to see these sweet young vulnerable girls looking on in shock or in mock pleasure for the publicity camera shots. Traumatised and needing comfort before this operation while ridiculous, even abusive and evil adults look on grinning.

When will this be called out for the true heinous abuse that it is? Please please be soon, but that won’t be soon enough.

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Your heart weeps because you are a normal empathetic person. They are narcissistic misfits who care nothing for the future or well being of these young people. I feel overwhelming anger for what they are doing.

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Mar 5, 2022Liked by mole at the counter

They are on the record and will have to answer for this in the future

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What I love about Graham and JL is they have the receipts. One day, it'll be the International Criminal Court for these people, for "crimes against humanity."

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I really hope so

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Unless they win.

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I can’t see how that’s possible in the long term. It’s only a matter of time until the lawsuits from mutilated teens start

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That's because you think the good guys always win. The winners become the good guys, not always the other way around.

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No I don’t think that. Plenty of examples of bad guys winning.

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If ,God help us they do win ,this fight will never end and there's zero chance of them ever becoming the good guys ,given the damage their actions and beliefs have caused already and will continue to cause in the future . Their ideology is a house of cards built on quicksand ,and therefore unsustainable.

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I guess I'm really saying that good causes don't win wars on their merits, they win because people fight for them. We all have to fight in this war because otherwise we won't win. The patriarchy is a great deal more powerful than we are, we have to win because we fight harder because we can't afford to lose.

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Mar 5, 2022Liked by mole at the counter

I hope episode 2 demystifies being castrated.

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Mar 7, 2022·edited Mar 7, 2022

Hah - most TWs skip that. I wonder why . . .

"Can't understand why lesbians are so obsessed with penises. Some lesbians have penises. And so what?" - Carole from Oregon on Twitter.

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Mar 10, 2022·edited Mar 11, 2022

Then she (and her ilk) can damn well be the ones to service these "lesbian penises". Better get cracking, Carole-- all those "girldicks" ain't gonna suck themselves!

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If we're discussing snapchat, you can says girls as well as women. It has one of the youngest demographics with a large number of children using it. I'd also raise the question of how this sits with the ASA's upcoming ban on advertising or promoting (yes, that includes influencers) any cosmetic procedures to under 18s.

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I’m sorry if this is too much but I breast fed both my children for a year each, and those feelings and memories are among the most special in my 45 years. That this has been taken away from them makes me so sad. I could never have related to breastfeeding when I was in my teens or 20s. But to have that option just removed. Ah it’s fucking a pile of evil shit.

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I feel the same way. They will never, never know now how powerful and joyful female breasts can be.

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Echo all the thoughts above. And in my horror contemplating that photo I’m disturbed by thoughts that the apparently handsome chap, won’t have a matching ‘bottom half’… this movement is creating an army of half men/half women, like some dystopian 21 century Satyr kingdom. I can only imagine they will have to date each other in the end as many will likely have repeated rejections from any

potential sexual partners. I suspect many people would feel deliberately deceived when their expectations turn out to be built on a false premise. Even if they were up front, the point is on first contact they are presenting as something they’re not, and have to

come clean, but that first impression can never stand, as it was based on a lie. It’s so deeply sad. Let alone the fact that the trans person will have to cope with the lifelong feeling of living a lie, being a phony, a sham, never really fitting in to their chosen sex, but will never be accepted again, properly, by their original sex. (Hopefully some desisters do) but if you’ve ever watched any detransitioner videos, the women always end up looking like a trans women trying to be a woman and the men, similarly, always look too manly. It’s a hot mess in which only big pharma will be happy. I find it all heartbreaking and I detest the fact that Governments around the world are encouraging it. It’s so pernicious it has to be a concerted effort. It’s one big sick experiment. And an attack on reality too. Utter insanity. (Thanks Graham, for all you do to help).

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It is heartbreaking. There's so many arguments on Twitter about this and people are called names for not being sexually interested. People don't talk about what sexual interest is about on twitter. I read a lot and I've never seen it mentioned.

Sexual drive is a reproductive drive and it's all about making babies and it's all about the body. We are animals after all, mammals, think David Attenborough etc. In psychology, we'd say it's the behaviour that selected for not the outcome. So cognitively it gets unhitched in our minds from reproduction. So it's all about bodily cues for our instincts and if they aren't lined up odds are we'll lose interest. It is heartbreaking.

But it's the same drive for the gay community it's just orientated towards the same sex. They still need all the same cues but for a the same sex body. It's a reproductive drive. I'm not sure what gay men and lesbians will make of me putting it this way. But they are in effect trying to make babies with other gay men. And lesbians are trying to make babies with other lesbians. And that's all about having the right body.

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Mar 10, 2022·edited Mar 10, 2022

I'd be more inclined to put it this way: sexual orientation-- any of 'em-- is based on attraction to biological sex: men, women, or both. Male and female are indeed fundamentally reproductive categories (that's why they evolved in the first place), but human sexuality is about more than that: our psychological needs-- feeling accepted, loved, secure; bonding with each other-- are just as important. Look at our closest extant relatives, bonobos (aka pygmy chimps); their entire social structure is shaped by sexuality! It's the main thing that distinguishes them from chimpanzees. And same-sex sexuality is a key component of it, too.

So it's not about making babies, exactly. It's about being wired to respond sexually to primary and secondary sex characteristics-- the observable markers of maleness or femaleness-- depending on our orientation. Which, of course, often DOES result in babies... but also "keeps the species going" in other ways, as well.

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I do know what you mean. The primary goal is reproduction. Bottom line. And that's why the body is fundamental.

It's the behaviour that is selected for but as we are social other stuff gets added on to that. Bonding and love etc. I agree.

But I do think it's the reproductive drive that everything gets built on top of :)

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Just after WWII, my family lived in a volatile part of Europe where the conflicts continued between warring factions. Women always seemed to suffer horribly and the ultimate act of mysogony was performed which was to slice off their breasts after being raped.

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Trans activism is a war against women.

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This makes me feel sick. I am so sorry for our youth.

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Ben Cohen is a man, so maybe he is pleased that women lose their breasts to his misogynistic ideology. If you hate women, then breasts, as a manifestation of womanhood, could be hateful too, and the the needless mutilation of young women might make you joyful.

This is not about sports and toilets. It is an all-out war on women by male "rights" activists. They use words, fear, and the latent hatred of women in many men and women to disappear women and destroy women's rights to safety, privacy and dignity. They have captured the civil service, the judiciary and the political establishment, not to mention multiple businesses and institutions. Those women who have done well a the system designed for men (eg. Sturgeon, Ardern) are used to give them cover, as are their words. For example

"Woman" meaning man

"(inset female body part or sexed function here)-haver" meaning women

"Inclusion" meaning destruction of women's boundaries

"LGBT+ group" meaning misogyny unit

"share your pronouns" meaning prove your loyalty

"gender based" meaning female-denying

"marginalised" meaning highly privileged and well-connected

Lets start using words to mean something real. Expose their language and you have disarmed them. But beware: they will try to do it to you first, because that is their modus operandi.

If you think the Ukrainians are brave, then remember we have to be brave like them, because we are also in a war for our existence.

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The sheer homophobia is repellent..and Ben is cheering it on as it doesn't affect him.

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Last night my sixth friend told me their teenage daughter is "trans". Six girls I have known since they were little. SIX. All binding, asking for blockers, for referral to GIDS. SIX.

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This is horrific. But I feel in 3-5 years there will be a tidal wave of ‘detransitoners’ - there just has to be. These girls are not ‘boys’ - that are just struggling with puberty as puberty is so bloody awful, particularly in our sexualised world. If there was such a thing as trans when I was a girl I’m sure it would have seemed a fair alternative to being ogled by men/shouted at from vans.

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I'm sure that's right, also peer pressure, spread through local schools like a virus. Difference between this and the contagious of past, like binge eating, is that supposed grownups actively encouraging it.

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"Hostile to their identity" aka not validating their delusion.

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Spot on ,as always ,Graham.👍So depressing how much these types of men hate women and support their mutllation. Ultimate aim here is to destroy women completely and ,if they could ,to drum us out of existence ( while falsely accusing us of doing this to them ). If they were in charge of the world.,every newborn would be " transed " shortly after birth ,with catastrophic results and the only " women " in the future would be men with man made artificial "female" reproductive organs Sperm and egg banks would be doing a roaring trade ( until they run out ) ,then what ? I'm sure some of these people actually believe they could achieve that ,far fetched as it sounds !😭

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