Oh my. This is utterly disgusting. Just when you think you've heard it all. Gender ideology is like a cancer, spreading silently through the deepest most important parts of society, sharpening its knives ready to slice through children's precious lives. It's so dark and completely unfathomable, this story is another example of how difficult it is to get the lay person to believe it. My heart endlessly breaks for these young people. They are truly lost.. this is why I am in this fight. We cannot give up on them!
Chilling indeed. A nightmarish quality to what is happening in the “care” of our young people. What a lot the Scottish administration has to answer for when this all comes to court.
If they end up in court will it be “I was just following orders “. Employees need to think about this when they slavishly fo the bidding of questionable policies.
This is so chilling. A piece of advice for anyone engaging in discussions with any person in an official capacity is to secretly record the conversations. It presumably won’t have any legal status but a key moment for peaking me was hearing the secret recording by a Uni teacher in the US. In the interview she was accused of making trans students feel uncomfortable by showing a clip of Jordan Petersen in a TV debate. It was a shock to hear what the Uni staff said to her. I simply would not have believed what the recording revealed if I hadn’t heard it. Prior to that I thought it was all right propaganda that unis had been ‘captured’ . The more that reasonable people can see evidence that what never happens IS happening, the more pressure can be bought on those institutions.
I think you mean what happened to Lindsay Shepherd, at Wilfred Laurier University in Canada. Yes, that she taped the meeting was absolutely crucial, no one would otherwise have believed how she was treated.
The children you could have been providing stability, direction, decent food, clean clothes, love and boundaries to during this time period. Heartbreaking.
This exactly. All those kids who could have had a loving stable home with Patricia but now can't because she doesn't believe kids can decide to harm themselves. I despair.
Shocking story which makes me ashamed to be Scottish. Hard to believe that any social worker worthy of the name could actually actively promote the indoctrination, medicalisation and castration of children as part of an extremely dangerous and damaging adult political agenda ! My sister is a retired social worker ,with speciall responsibility for child protection ,and she is just as horrified as I am by this state sanctioned child abuse. These people aren't fit to be in charge of ANYTHING ,especially not child protection. Shame on them all
It's BECAUSE the BBC and their media cohorts (Ofcom, Channel 4, The Guardian et al) have been enthusiastically indoctrinating the entire populace, among them social workers like these, that this poisonous ideology has gained such spread and control.
Thank goodness I finished the adoption process just before all this madness kicked off. We were asked about sexuality but not identity, the former I’m completely comfortable with but not the latter. Hours of grilling on the most personal topics, training, panels, health screening and inspections are all necessary but this is just thought control. This person sounds more than qualified to care for vulnerable children with a great deal of empathy-I would red flag anyone who said they agreed with medical transition not the other way around!
Welcome to the UK child safeguarding system. There are a number of ideologies operating within social work that are all male affirming. I have been in family court for 2 years and they have a hidden system called 'contact at any cost' for abusive men. Male abuse of child is called a different 'style' of parenting, the victim of domestic abuse is deemed emotionally harmful to the child for exhibiting distress when being dragged round the house by their hair or similar and the first court session barrs all evidence from the court via refusing a fact finding. From there on in all male violence is removed from the case and the court can safely proceed to order the mother to be tested for psychiatric disorders aka non recorded abuse. Once they have deemed the mother the abuser for her wrong reactions to domestic abuse, they can transfer residence to the abusive male or leave it with him if he has already cut contact between mother and child. If the mother has the temerity to open another case to get the unicorn like fact finding done, she is issued with a barring order and told to pay her abuser costs. In my case, I haven't seen my child for 2.5 years now. We are living in 1930s Germany and women are the Jews.
I’m so sorry, this needs to change urgently. My friend has had a similar experience being dragged through the courts racking up legal bills. It is an inhuman punishment win or lose.
What is happening to children via safeguarding is going to make Rotherham look like a children's teaparty. Millions of children deliberately fucked up by gender orthodoxy or domestic abuse ... all to satisfy abusive male egos ...
I would suspect money changing hands; to be clear, I mean from the man's attorney to the judge. A friend sat in a court in Ohio and watched the man's attorney hand a packet of money to the judge (everyone besides my friend and the two corrupt males had left the courtroom).
I am so sorry for you AND your child who must miss you dreadfully. This is state-sanctioned abuse of mother and child.
When my trans ex-H left us I was terrified that he would go to Court and demand access to our two children (10 and 12), and confuse them utterly. I spent hours and days thinking about how to respond to his urgent, self-centered e-mails all about him, him, him (or rather "she", "she", "she") and nothing at all about our children. I found a mutual friend willing to supervise a potential contact meeting, a condition which he accepted (!), but fortunately we could never agree a time and place for meetings, so month by month, year by year the urgency went away and by the time they were 12 and 14 they had no desire to see a person who never came to see them: as in ringing the bell of their house and asking to see them. Obviously I am pleased that he left them alone and they developed to their maximum potential, which their half-sibbling did not.
Those years of terrible anxiety and fear were the worst of my life. Of course my panic attacks and financial insecurity just didn't exist for my ex-H or anyone. The loneliness is crippling. Another 13 years have now passed....
Please contact me by e-mail if you would like. Graham can help.
I don't know what my child thinks anymore ... she is surrounded by abuser enablers and so talks the talk at the moment. No mail gets out that doesn't go through her dad. I see the tactics of family court and domestic abuse as a direct correlation of the gender identity movement. Making legal fiction into law and compelled speech backed up by extreme anger and violence. Its all an exercise in removing human rights from women to define as ourselves. Thanks for the offer of emailing, I'm in the process of grieving at the moment so am not good company - it involves a lot of snotty hankies and staring into the horizon with the same 1000 yard stare seen on World War I soldiers. I can't imagine the hell of having a child identify as transgender at the moment as social workers are up to their neck in this.
For the moment your child is not too confused, I hope. Can you go back to court to try to get equal time with your daughter? The Forstater case should help you. Gender critical beliefs are worthy of respect, and you can hold them. I am praying for you and your child.
My case was in family court and was regarding domestic abuse of myself and her. I was commenting on the parallels in attitudes to women standing up for their rights in UK and how social workers are systemically misogynistic. I have been given a barring order to prevent me taking it further and judge awarded costs against me ... to tick me off for having the temerity of appealing his previous decision. The secrecy and lying in social work as in court is frightening. People need to be aware that in any undertakings with courts or social services they need to record everything as liars are endemic to both systems.
So I was right to delay and delay and always keep myself calm in emails, with the firm intention of giving him not one moment alone with my precious babes. A supervised meeting with the friend might have been acceptable, but he lives 60 miles away and is too lazy and self-centered to make the effort. He was only interested in manipulation if it wasn't too much effort!
You were absolutely right. Judges are abusers too, as are social workers as the original post points out. They are all in it for their own egos and not interested in safeguarding children at all.
It's heartbreaking to see a woman so obviously suited to foster and guide vulnerable children being treated this way. And even more heartbreaking to think of the children that will be harmed by these agencies, because of the self-serving ambition of Stonewall, Mermaids and the people who run them and work there.
No surprise about Patricia's experience with Stirling Council.
Stirling is known as Woke Central. High student population who appear to be completely captured. In general quite a bit of political bullying goes on behind the scenes, with one SNP activist charged with issuing rape threats to Jo Cherry.
What a shocking experience. Social workers are the worst with recognising child abuse through transgenderism. So sad for this lovely woman that when these agencies are desperate for foster careers that they have lost her.
Ive always been bemused at the hoops they make fosterers jump through but the parents who had the child had no checks whether they were fit to bring a child into the world?..
I was thinking about fostering but don't think i can go thru the interrogation without my head spinning spewing toxic terfery in their woke faces. So i'll pass.
I'm sorry you're being treated like this, it makes me so angry. It makes you wonder how many kids they have who have gender identity issues, and if their own families have refused to affirm them. Also, how many people who want to foster swallow all this nonsense? It'd be interesting to find out.
Oh my. This is utterly disgusting. Just when you think you've heard it all. Gender ideology is like a cancer, spreading silently through the deepest most important parts of society, sharpening its knives ready to slice through children's precious lives. It's so dark and completely unfathomable, this story is another example of how difficult it is to get the lay person to believe it. My heart endlessly breaks for these young people. They are truly lost.. this is why I am in this fight. We cannot give up on them!
Chilling indeed. A nightmarish quality to what is happening in the “care” of our young people. What a lot the Scottish administration has to answer for when this all comes to court.
Yes ,hope I live to see them all ( from all parties ) get their comeuppance . They deserve to be in jail !!
If they end up in court will it be “I was just following orders “. Employees need to think about this when they slavishly fo the bidding of questionable policies.
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This is so chilling. A piece of advice for anyone engaging in discussions with any person in an official capacity is to secretly record the conversations. It presumably won’t have any legal status but a key moment for peaking me was hearing the secret recording by a Uni teacher in the US. In the interview she was accused of making trans students feel uncomfortable by showing a clip of Jordan Petersen in a TV debate. It was a shock to hear what the Uni staff said to her. I simply would not have believed what the recording revealed if I hadn’t heard it. Prior to that I thought it was all right propaganda that unis had been ‘captured’ . The more that reasonable people can see evidence that what never happens IS happening, the more pressure can be bought on those institutions.
I think you mean what happened to Lindsay Shepherd, at Wilfred Laurier University in Canada. Yes, that she taped the meeting was absolutely crucial, no one would otherwise have believed how she was treated.
Yes, thanks!
The children you could have been providing stability, direction, decent food, clean clothes, love and boundaries to during this time period. Heartbreaking.
This exactly. All those kids who could have had a loving stable home with Patricia but now can't because she doesn't believe kids can decide to harm themselves. I despair.
And rationality!
Shocking story which makes me ashamed to be Scottish. Hard to believe that any social worker worthy of the name could actually actively promote the indoctrination, medicalisation and castration of children as part of an extremely dangerous and damaging adult political agenda ! My sister is a retired social worker ,with speciall responsibility for child protection ,and she is just as horrified as I am by this state sanctioned child abuse. These people aren't fit to be in charge of ANYTHING ,especially not child protection. Shame on them all
I take it someone will forward this to Stephen Nolan for his next investigation?
Oh gosh, please let there be one on what's happening to children.
It's BECAUSE the BBC and their media cohorts (Ofcom, Channel 4, The Guardian et al) have been enthusiastically indoctrinating the entire populace, among them social workers like these, that this poisonous ideology has gained such spread and control.
Thank goodness I finished the adoption process just before all this madness kicked off. We were asked about sexuality but not identity, the former I’m completely comfortable with but not the latter. Hours of grilling on the most personal topics, training, panels, health screening and inspections are all necessary but this is just thought control. This person sounds more than qualified to care for vulnerable children with a great deal of empathy-I would red flag anyone who said they agreed with medical transition not the other way around!
Welcome to the UK child safeguarding system. There are a number of ideologies operating within social work that are all male affirming. I have been in family court for 2 years and they have a hidden system called 'contact at any cost' for abusive men. Male abuse of child is called a different 'style' of parenting, the victim of domestic abuse is deemed emotionally harmful to the child for exhibiting distress when being dragged round the house by their hair or similar and the first court session barrs all evidence from the court via refusing a fact finding. From there on in all male violence is removed from the case and the court can safely proceed to order the mother to be tested for psychiatric disorders aka non recorded abuse. Once they have deemed the mother the abuser for her wrong reactions to domestic abuse, they can transfer residence to the abusive male or leave it with him if he has already cut contact between mother and child. If the mother has the temerity to open another case to get the unicorn like fact finding done, she is issued with a barring order and told to pay her abuser costs. In my case, I haven't seen my child for 2.5 years now. We are living in 1930s Germany and women are the Jews.
I’m so sorry, this needs to change urgently. My friend has had a similar experience being dragged through the courts racking up legal bills. It is an inhuman punishment win or lose.
What is happening to children via safeguarding is going to make Rotherham look like a children's teaparty. Millions of children deliberately fucked up by gender orthodoxy or domestic abuse ... all to satisfy abusive male egos ...
I would suspect money changing hands; to be clear, I mean from the man's attorney to the judge. A friend sat in a court in Ohio and watched the man's attorney hand a packet of money to the judge (everyone besides my friend and the two corrupt males had left the courtroom).
I do wonder if the judge in my case is in some kind of boys club with my ex's barrister a la the Masons or some kind of satanic cult.
Best wishes to you as you deal with this incredibly difficult situation.
Thanks Susan x
I am so sorry for you AND your child who must miss you dreadfully. This is state-sanctioned abuse of mother and child.
When my trans ex-H left us I was terrified that he would go to Court and demand access to our two children (10 and 12), and confuse them utterly. I spent hours and days thinking about how to respond to his urgent, self-centered e-mails all about him, him, him (or rather "she", "she", "she") and nothing at all about our children. I found a mutual friend willing to supervise a potential contact meeting, a condition which he accepted (!), but fortunately we could never agree a time and place for meetings, so month by month, year by year the urgency went away and by the time they were 12 and 14 they had no desire to see a person who never came to see them: as in ringing the bell of their house and asking to see them. Obviously I am pleased that he left them alone and they developed to their maximum potential, which their half-sibbling did not.
Those years of terrible anxiety and fear were the worst of my life. Of course my panic attacks and financial insecurity just didn't exist for my ex-H or anyone. The loneliness is crippling. Another 13 years have now passed....
Please contact me by e-mail if you would like. Graham can help.
I don't know what my child thinks anymore ... she is surrounded by abuser enablers and so talks the talk at the moment. No mail gets out that doesn't go through her dad. I see the tactics of family court and domestic abuse as a direct correlation of the gender identity movement. Making legal fiction into law and compelled speech backed up by extreme anger and violence. Its all an exercise in removing human rights from women to define as ourselves. Thanks for the offer of emailing, I'm in the process of grieving at the moment so am not good company - it involves a lot of snotty hankies and staring into the horizon with the same 1000 yard stare seen on World War I soldiers. I can't imagine the hell of having a child identify as transgender at the moment as social workers are up to their neck in this.
For the moment your child is not too confused, I hope. Can you go back to court to try to get equal time with your daughter? The Forstater case should help you. Gender critical beliefs are worthy of respect, and you can hold them. I am praying for you and your child.
My case was in family court and was regarding domestic abuse of myself and her. I was commenting on the parallels in attitudes to women standing up for their rights in UK and how social workers are systemically misogynistic. I have been given a barring order to prevent me taking it further and judge awarded costs against me ... to tick me off for having the temerity of appealing his previous decision. The secrecy and lying in social work as in court is frightening. People need to be aware that in any undertakings with courts or social services they need to record everything as liars are endemic to both systems.
This is utterly horrifying.
Women are like the Jews in Nazi Germany indeed.
So I was right to delay and delay and always keep myself calm in emails, with the firm intention of giving him not one moment alone with my precious babes. A supervised meeting with the friend might have been acceptable, but he lives 60 miles away and is too lazy and self-centered to make the effort. He was only interested in manipulation if it wasn't too much effort!
You were absolutely right. Judges are abusers too, as are social workers as the original post points out. They are all in it for their own egos and not interested in safeguarding children at all.
I hope the mainstream media will take this up. They would refuse a child a home for this??
I recall an incident where a UKIP couple were barred from fostering a while back because of their "extremist" views.
Although shocking, this latest incident isn't surprising. Slippery slope and all that.
Incidentally, the couple were vindicated and it turned out to be a rogue social worker so I advise your subscriber to pursue this.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/may/20/council-mistakes-ukip-foster-parents
It's heartbreaking to see a woman so obviously suited to foster and guide vulnerable children being treated this way. And even more heartbreaking to think of the children that will be harmed by these agencies, because of the self-serving ambition of Stonewall, Mermaids and the people who run them and work there.
No surprise about Patricia's experience with Stirling Council.
Stirling is known as Woke Central. High student population who appear to be completely captured. In general quite a bit of political bullying goes on behind the scenes, with one SNP activist charged with issuing rape threats to Jo Cherry.
Briefly attending that university caused me to peak.
What a shocking experience. Social workers are the worst with recognising child abuse through transgenderism. So sad for this lovely woman that when these agencies are desperate for foster careers that they have lost her.
Ive always been bemused at the hoops they make fosterers jump through but the parents who had the child had no checks whether they were fit to bring a child into the world?..
I was thinking about fostering but don't think i can go thru the interrogation without my head spinning spewing toxic terfery in their woke faces. So i'll pass.
Reprehensible.
I'm sorry you're being treated like this, it makes me so angry. It makes you wonder how many kids they have who have gender identity issues, and if their own families have refused to affirm them. Also, how many people who want to foster swallow all this nonsense? It'd be interesting to find out.