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Jul 16, 2022Liked by Graham Linehan, mole at the counter

It’s so very easy not to notice the impact on women when you’re a man and you don’t know and you don’t care.

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Happened to me in Clapham Junction a couple of weeks ago. The eejit actually spoke to me in order to be sure that I noticed him. They are attention-seekers. Best to Ignore them. Unless you have a pepper spray to hand.

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Men with mental health issues in dresses!

Which is one thing but being told you have to believe they are woman!

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And all the other transgressions that aren't documented. Countless. Women refusing to use spaces because there's a man in that space, or a man loitering about that space. Women have been trained to be kind, be second, be subservient, don't complain, what's right before your eyes isn't actually there, you don't matter, he matters more, he'll knock out your teeth if you say anything, stuff down your thoughts, stuff down your fears, what can I do?, this is just the way it is, it must be me, no one else is having a problem with this ...

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So many incidents have happened in women’s changing rooms and toilets, to say it doesn’t happen is disingenuous, but Colin Monty is a liar, but then his life is one big lie.

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How can you tell a TRA (activist or ally) is lying? His or her lips are moving.

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Monty - The Dumpter Fire that keeps burning.

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I so hope someone knows him and IDs him on the internet. Giant,. Misogynistic Twerp...

I'd have said to him:

"Excuse me, Sir, would you like me to guide you out, as I can see your vision is very poor, you having walked into The Ladies Loos by mistake. I have very bad vision myself - (I truly do, thank Lordy for the person who invented contact lenses!) - thus, I understand how easy it is to make such a terrible error...and I don't want you to be called a pervert. Here, take my arm...and I'll see you safely out..." ;0)

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Ireland deserves so much better than this. Noticed in work that people in the Ireland office still show their pronouns on Zoom - hardly anyone else does. People just deleting them quietly

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Ireland? And Barbie Kardashian!

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Jul 16, 2022Liked by mole at the counter

Does this mean that I can use women's toilets whenever I choose? I have an old discarded lipstick 💄 and some blusher.

I promise to put the seat back down.

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I’m sorry Hatie, I never learned to speak Tranese. Can you ‘trans’ late that please ?

So far, your truth and our truth, seem mismatched with the ‘trans’ lation.

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There was a time I would have called this out but a few months ago I called out a big guy who was inching up beside my bag at a bus stop and got punched in the face out into the road. A two week black eye has made me more cautious.

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It is axiomatic that anything KM says is either a lie or complete fantasy.

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I'm convinced they would stil be in denial even if they were stepping over the bodies of women in the female toilets !! Lies and Denials are what they do best.👎🤮💔

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I reckon that “pride” and “pride marches” - with reference to sexuality - are intended to stir everyone up and have no other aim. Think about it. Consenting adults can do what they want in private. No-one cares. But the “Pride” thing means practically whacking out your tackle in public and jacking off. The “Pride” thing is intended to rake up offence!

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