This article was originally published by Reduxx and was written by Shay Woulahan. A woman who was arrested after confronting a man using the women’s restrooms in a bar in Cardiff, Wales has come forward to speak with Reduxx about her experience. Kate, whose name has been changed at her request to protect her anonymity, had been at attendance during the day at
Ah, yes, let's pretend a woman asking a man to use the men's bathroom is the threat and not the other way around... Blokes is dress are the most delicate of women, apparently, and can't possibly be asked to use the male facilities.
Yeah, blokes in dresses are totes entitled to protection from having to share a restroom with blokes... but somehow, when women want the same thing for themselves, it's suddenly a "hate crime".
That is just disgusting! Not only are males thinking it is perfectly fine for them to invade women's reserved spaces, sports and organizations, but transmaidens of both sexes fight their Battles for them! The police too. How someone with a functioning brain can stand before a woman and insist the man beside them is a woman is beyond me. They are totally immune to truth and common sense too. 🤢
What will end up happening here is that these occurrences will continue and get worse and worse until the younger handmaiden generation have bad experiences around bad men themselves. Until they get assaulted or feel under threat (enough times to realise males are an inherent potential threat) they aren’t going to listen to us boring older women. It will have to be them or one of their friends who feels the direct effect. This is the fault of the universities and schools who have indoctrinated them as well as the social media they can’t get their faces out of. Whilst us older women hold the line they will have to suffer the consequences for not upholding heir own boundaries. It’s sad but I’m afraid it’s gonna be true.
I think they are so indoctrinated that they will tolerate the abuse. Remember the girl who had men perv on her in Primark? She was clearly very upset but STILL insisted that being 'inclusive' is a good thing. Sounded like she was going to take a friend with her every time in future - when it would be so much easier just to keep men out! 🤦♀️
Yes I do, but her mind was whirring on that one and the result of putting that out there on SM would have peaked many or at least got them thinking. That’s round one for that young woman, perhaps round 2 will be enough to completely turn her.
I hope so. It was upsetting to see her distress when it really doesn't need to be that way. I bet so many older feminists wanted to sit her down and have a chat. But she'll have to find her own way to the sane side.
Yes it reminds me of coercive control - minimising the harm that’s been done to them/normalising it without realising they are just putting themselves second to men. I can’t imagine a trans identified female getting a man arrested like this- also can’t imagine bar staff canvassing support for a female from other patrons like an out of control activist blob. Bullies without brains
I really hope that there’s action taken against the bar staff and the police. Absolutely ridiculous waste of time and money. I wonder how these aunt Lydias and Commanders are going to feel about their behaviour when the finally wake up?
No men in womens toilets, putting on women face does not make fetishtic men women, shame on the "women hating staff" shame on the owner and shame on the fetish man
I don’t often like the analogy but seeing this shot going on makes it so easy to understand how almost the entire of Germany collaborated with the Nazis or turned a blind eye.
Bet you anything that some experimenting surgeons are even now scooping up the freshly amputated breasts of young women and 'pioneering' the transplanting of them onto men
The lack or non adherence to process is the punishment.
Also, forcing her to apologise and she would be let go is also shocking....are they still operating non hate crime incidents which i believe police forces have been instructed aren't legal.
There's no such thing. She was arrested and "de-arresting" is not a legal thing so basically just an admittance that they had no grounds for arrest and are covering their arse. I'm pretty sure she could sue. That statement to the police basically showed us who the police are - it was full of inaccuracies.
Pardon my paranoia but this is a huge programme with enormous funding behind it and the ones organising it are having a sadistic laugh at how much outrageous bullshit they can get away with.
They're trying to undermine everything, including our government... well, they already have. Wait for Kemi Badenoch to be driven out soon because she had the wrong opinions and her staff opposed her.
So they lied about you to the police and got away with that!? Good to know that they can lie to police without any action from the police towards them!! But you got arrested for telling the truth!! And if they suspected of cocain use they should have tested you, otherwise are their claims libellous?
The Google reviews have stories of the staff being huge jerks to people, unrelated to this. It’s almost funny, little righteous tyrants working at a bar
Someone in the area should make a cursory visit to the bar and then put a review on Trip Advisor and those other common review sites about them hating women.
That was my first thought too. "Go woke , go broke," cliche that it is, would focus an awful lot of businesses into doing what is right rather than what they have been brainwashed into believing is right
Pretty standard for police everywhere to not respond after they’ve acted illegally or failed to act involving women. I think that’s illegal in itself isn’t it? They are all men after all with a few token women tossed in as eye candy and to not look horribly sexist. It’s just not on there are no consequences and information about THEIR harrassment at all. No wonder no one trusts them when they’re this useless slack and sexist as an institution. They just chose the easiest target to arbitrarily detain. Where on earth are we all headed if there is no transparency or cognisance of common sense, rights and law from authorities.
Something HAS to be done about the indoctrination of the police who are now a misogynistic force for pervert rights. Has anyone also noticed that on social media at least, women are more and more often being portrayed as aggressors. The Depp v Heard case did not help this narrative. Whenever I see anything about domestic violence there is always a growing number of people crying "don't forget men are abused by women too". Yes, they can also be victims, but the overwhelming majority of victims are women at the hands of men. In our rush as a society to be ever more inclusive we are equating the few male domestic violence victims with the vast majority of female ones. Society is forgetting that men are much more able to defend themselves against other men than women are able to due to biological differences in physique which lead to greater strength and speed. What a mess. If I had been in that bar I would have stood by that woman.
Gabby Petito died because of the “women can be aggressors too” bullshit. The police treated a small, very upset woman with marks on her neck as the aggressor and put her in the back of the cop car while her murder called her crazy and laughed about her with the cops. He got a night in a hotel paid for by a domestic violence shelter too. The police knew it was bullshit to make her as the aggressor but were under the impression that the law’s the law and she admits she slapped him. Meanwhile, her murder casually telling them about how he wouldn’t let her back in her own van because she needed to calm down. Just normal things, a man with all the physical power to kill a woman with his bare hands using his physicality to force her out of her own car. But she’s the aggressor. He killed her right after the encounter. Strangled her.
Yeah. Saw the shocking story on YouTube. Beggars belief . The same sort of thing has happened more than once in the UK as well. Took a long time to bring in Laws against Stalking. Women had to die first.😭😱💔
I'm so sick of this sh1t. The ONLY plus about the Tories is that Kemi *might* do something. She has to make a statement that all women's toilets must be single SEX spaces under the EA. Bet she doesn't though. 🤬😥
Absolutely agree - women need to hear from the top that they are safe to challenge these men and these organisations that allow men to access female toilets and changing rooms. There ought to be a new law introduced where they are committing an offence by not having female only toilets and be committing an offence if they do not defend them against males accessing them. We are supposed to be under a Conservative government but you wouldn’t believe it, they’ve dragged their heels for too long. If Boris could make a comment about Muslim ladies dress being like a letterbox and get away with it you think he would have had the balls to say that men in dresses are men (and yes I know we are two PM’s on from him now but just saying 😂).
OK l'll try to explain. It's the World Economic Forum which meets in Davos and is headed by Klaus Schwab. KS claims to make policy for governments and control what is done. He and the whole organisation favour the Great Reset which through digital means would seek to control us through digital currency and other means similar to those used by the Chinese Communist Party. It would reduce us to serfdom and poverty.I regard KS and his agents as the agents of the Devil, but that is just how I see them. Some think they are part of the End Times predicted in The Bible as the one world government before Christ takes over and rules.
That aside, they WEF claim to have good intentions through climate improvement and to be fairer. When you look under the surface it's about power and control and a good life for the elites such as Schwab and Bill Gates and Trudeau etc and poverty and no freedom for the rest of us. It's all very dark and hard to believe but out in the open on The World Economic Forum website.
Once you start to see it, it's all very hard to unsee as they owly take over, Western governments and nullify our democracy, by buying off our politicians and undermining our societies with their communist ideas.
The farmers priotesting in Holland are part of those being hurt by their policies because they want to get rid of meat production by 2030.
Perhaps that's all it needs, but if someone doesn't know what WEF is, they probably don't know about their corrupt plans for us. Like it or not the World Economic Forum's plans are well on the way to succeeding. If people don't wake up soon, we lose everything and our concerns for family, children and freedom are too late.
She's definitely GC, and she will want to do something, but Tories aren't renowned for caring about people so she may face opposition. Although Sunak seems to have become more aware since the days when he didn't know what a woman was, so maybe I'm being too pessimistic.
I think ordinary members of every party care more then the MPs of any party, with few notable exceptions like my MP Joanna Cherry. The only party supporting women is Alba, and most people in the UK can't vote for them. Politics has never been so bad.
"I do believe she will send men back to their corners" Unfortunately, that kind of statement, whilst understandable, is not really helpful when many of us caring, protective husbands and fathers are trying to fight the good fight on behalf of all (real) women
Every GC woman knows there are many, many wonderful men who are both active and supportive. But we shouldn't have to precede every single comment we make with saying there are good men too. We know that. Our comments about putting men in their place only refer to men who aren't in their place. Our comments about keeping men out of our spaces only refer to men trying to get *into* our spaces.
If a man says 'women shouldn't cheat' then I don't take it personally as I'm not a cheater. If you don't trounce over women's rights then those comments aren't about you so don't take them personally.
Thank you to you and all the decent guys for your support. We know there are many, we are just busy focusing on the TRA element.
Thanks, joolzzt. I understand your explanation and mostly agree with you. I wasn't being argumentative, I was just saying that us "normal" chaps are more likely to switch off if we're lumbered in with the badduns, which is how Alison in Oz's post reads when she uses the catch-all word "men".
Anyways, we're all on the same side, so I'll keep doing my bit whenever I can to resist the madness.
Ah, yes, let's pretend a woman asking a man to use the men's bathroom is the threat and not the other way around... Blokes is dress are the most delicate of women, apparently, and can't possibly be asked to use the male facilities.
Well why not? They were pretending she was snorting cocaine and swinging punches, why not pretend the man in drag is not the problem?
Yeah, blokes in dresses are totes entitled to protection from having to share a restroom with blokes... but somehow, when women want the same thing for themselves, it's suddenly a "hate crime".
That is just disgusting! Not only are males thinking it is perfectly fine for them to invade women's reserved spaces, sports and organizations, but transmaidens of both sexes fight their Battles for them! The police too. How someone with a functioning brain can stand before a woman and insist the man beside them is a woman is beyond me. They are totally immune to truth and common sense too. 🤢
I'm going to steal and use that "transmaidens" term if you don't mind! :-)
Woman-loathing. Always popular in the manosphere!
What will end up happening here is that these occurrences will continue and get worse and worse until the younger handmaiden generation have bad experiences around bad men themselves. Until they get assaulted or feel under threat (enough times to realise males are an inherent potential threat) they aren’t going to listen to us boring older women. It will have to be them or one of their friends who feels the direct effect. This is the fault of the universities and schools who have indoctrinated them as well as the social media they can’t get their faces out of. Whilst us older women hold the line they will have to suffer the consequences for not upholding heir own boundaries. It’s sad but I’m afraid it’s gonna be true.
I think they are so indoctrinated that they will tolerate the abuse. Remember the girl who had men perv on her in Primark? She was clearly very upset but STILL insisted that being 'inclusive' is a good thing. Sounded like she was going to take a friend with her every time in future - when it would be so much easier just to keep men out! 🤦♀️
Yes I do, but her mind was whirring on that one and the result of putting that out there on SM would have peaked many or at least got them thinking. That’s round one for that young woman, perhaps round 2 will be enough to completely turn her.
I hope so. It was upsetting to see her distress when it really doesn't need to be that way. I bet so many older feminists wanted to sit her down and have a chat. But she'll have to find her own way to the sane side.
Yes it reminds me of coercive control - minimising the harm that’s been done to them/normalising it without realising they are just putting themselves second to men. I can’t imagine a trans identified female getting a man arrested like this- also can’t imagine bar staff canvassing support for a female from other patrons like an out of control activist blob. Bullies without brains
I really hope that there’s action taken against the bar staff and the police. Absolutely ridiculous waste of time and money. I wonder how these aunt Lydias and Commanders are going to feel about their behaviour when the finally wake up?
They're going to develop amnesia and pretend they never did any of it.
Glad that she has video of the incident and a witness.
It's getting to the stage where we'll have to wear a bodycam all the time. 🤬
No men in womens toilets, putting on women face does not make fetishtic men women, shame on the "women hating staff" shame on the owner and shame on the fetish man
I don’t often like the analogy but seeing this shot going on makes it so easy to understand how almost the entire of Germany collaborated with the Nazis or turned a blind eye.
Bet you anything that some experimenting surgeons are even now scooping up the freshly amputated breasts of young women and 'pioneering' the transplanting of them onto men
The irony of that shows how much their brains have ceased to understand anything other than what's been fed to them
Legal action should be taken against the police. Their whole interaction and statements are riddled with inaccuracies.
Yeah Never heard the word " de- arrested before.More destruction of the English language !!
The lack or non adherence to process is the punishment.
Also, forcing her to apologise and she would be let go is also shocking....are they still operating non hate crime incidents which i believe police forces have been instructed aren't legal.
There's no such thing. She was arrested and "de-arresting" is not a legal thing so basically just an admittance that they had no grounds for arrest and are covering their arse. I'm pretty sure she could sue. That statement to the police basically showed us who the police are - it was full of inaccuracies.
Pardon my paranoia but this is a huge programme with enormous funding behind it and the ones organising it are having a sadistic laugh at how much outrageous bullshit they can get away with.
It is huge, and it’s time we understood this cold hard fact.
They're trying to undermine everything, including our government... well, they already have. Wait for Kemi Badenoch to be driven out soon because she had the wrong opinions and her staff opposed her.
Huge programme indeed
it's not paranoia
As the saying goes: "it's not paranoia if they really ARE out to get you."
So they lied about you to the police and got away with that!? Good to know that they can lie to police without any action from the police towards them!! But you got arrested for telling the truth!! And if they suspected of cocain use they should have tested you, otherwise are their claims libellous?
Stay away from Heidi's Bier Bar in Cardiff. It obviously employs a load of woke idiots who don't respect women.
The Google reviews have stories of the staff being huge jerks to people, unrelated to this. It’s almost funny, little righteous tyrants working at a bar
Trip Advisor has a few reviews stating staff are rude - some since the incident but some prior to it as well.
Someone in the area should make a cursory visit to the bar and then put a review on Trip Advisor and those other common review sites about them hating women.
That was my first thought too. "Go woke , go broke," cliche that it is, would focus an awful lot of businesses into doing what is right rather than what they have been brainwashed into believing is right
Ffs, can't believe what I've reading! Police asking if she wants to apologise.
The naughty step next ...
submission. Bet you they find the prospect of a woman submitting to her male aggressor arousing,
Pretty standard for police everywhere to not respond after they’ve acted illegally or failed to act involving women. I think that’s illegal in itself isn’t it? They are all men after all with a few token women tossed in as eye candy and to not look horribly sexist. It’s just not on there are no consequences and information about THEIR harrassment at all. No wonder no one trusts them when they’re this useless slack and sexist as an institution. They just chose the easiest target to arbitrarily detain. Where on earth are we all headed if there is no transparency or cognisance of common sense, rights and law from authorities.
Something HAS to be done about the indoctrination of the police who are now a misogynistic force for pervert rights. Has anyone also noticed that on social media at least, women are more and more often being portrayed as aggressors. The Depp v Heard case did not help this narrative. Whenever I see anything about domestic violence there is always a growing number of people crying "don't forget men are abused by women too". Yes, they can also be victims, but the overwhelming majority of victims are women at the hands of men. In our rush as a society to be ever more inclusive we are equating the few male domestic violence victims with the vast majority of female ones. Society is forgetting that men are much more able to defend themselves against other men than women are able to due to biological differences in physique which lead to greater strength and speed. What a mess. If I had been in that bar I would have stood by that woman.
Gabby Petito died because of the “women can be aggressors too” bullshit. The police treated a small, very upset woman with marks on her neck as the aggressor and put her in the back of the cop car while her murder called her crazy and laughed about her with the cops. He got a night in a hotel paid for by a domestic violence shelter too. The police knew it was bullshit to make her as the aggressor but were under the impression that the law’s the law and she admits she slapped him. Meanwhile, her murder casually telling them about how he wouldn’t let her back in her own van because she needed to calm down. Just normal things, a man with all the physical power to kill a woman with his bare hands using his physicality to force her out of her own car. But she’s the aggressor. He killed her right after the encounter. Strangled her.
That poor woman. I strongly suspect hers is not the only tale like this, but hers ended in tragedy. We have long known that women are not listened to.
Yeah. Saw the shocking story on YouTube. Beggars belief . The same sort of thing has happened more than once in the UK as well. Took a long time to bring in Laws against Stalking. Women had to die first.😭😱💔
Who thought it was imperative to have Stonewall embedded so deep in the establishment?
This is 100% spot on
Self id vote in Scotland on Thursday I believe.
Thoughts and prayers with the women and girls of Scotland.
They certainly need them 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm so sick of this sh1t. The ONLY plus about the Tories is that Kemi *might* do something. She has to make a statement that all women's toilets must be single SEX spaces under the EA. Bet she doesn't though. 🤬😥
Absolutely agree - women need to hear from the top that they are safe to challenge these men and these organisations that allow men to access female toilets and changing rooms. There ought to be a new law introduced where they are committing an offence by not having female only toilets and be committing an offence if they do not defend them against males accessing them. We are supposed to be under a Conservative government but you wouldn’t believe it, they’ve dragged their heels for too long. If Boris could make a comment about Muslim ladies dress being like a letterbox and get away with it you think he would have had the balls to say that men in dresses are men (and yes I know we are two PM’s on from him now but just saying 😂).
Boris was got at by threats from the WEF shills and then brought down. They're ruthless.
What is WEF"? (American here)
OK l'll try to explain. It's the World Economic Forum which meets in Davos and is headed by Klaus Schwab. KS claims to make policy for governments and control what is done. He and the whole organisation favour the Great Reset which through digital means would seek to control us through digital currency and other means similar to those used by the Chinese Communist Party. It would reduce us to serfdom and poverty.I regard KS and his agents as the agents of the Devil, but that is just how I see them. Some think they are part of the End Times predicted in The Bible as the one world government before Christ takes over and rules.
That aside, they WEF claim to have good intentions through climate improvement and to be fairer. When you look under the surface it's about power and control and a good life for the elites such as Schwab and Bill Gates and Trudeau etc and poverty and no freedom for the rest of us. It's all very dark and hard to believe but out in the open on The World Economic Forum website.
Once you start to see it, it's all very hard to unsee as they owly take over, Western governments and nullify our democracy, by buying off our politicians and undermining our societies with their communist ideas.
The farmers priotesting in Holland are part of those being hurt by their policies because they want to get rid of meat production by 2030.
All you had to say is "World Economic Fund."
Perhaps that's all it needs, but if someone doesn't know what WEF is, they probably don't know about their corrupt plans for us. Like it or not the World Economic Forum's plans are well on the way to succeeding. If people don't wake up soon, we lose everything and our concerns for family, children and freedom are too late.
#WorldToiletDayNovember19th - campaign day marked out for the issue
She's definitely GC, and she will want to do something, but Tories aren't renowned for caring about people so she may face opposition. Although Sunak seems to have become more aware since the days when he didn't know what a woman was, so maybe I'm being too pessimistic.
Actual Tory party members care far more than Labour. It's the useless ones in government who are really in favour othe rubbish.
I think ordinary members of every party care more then the MPs of any party, with few notable exceptions like my MP Joanna Cherry. The only party supporting women is Alba, and most people in the UK can't vote for them. Politics has never been so bad.
"I do believe she will send men back to their corners" Unfortunately, that kind of statement, whilst understandable, is not really helpful when many of us caring, protective husbands and fathers are trying to fight the good fight on behalf of all (real) women
Every GC woman knows there are many, many wonderful men who are both active and supportive. But we shouldn't have to precede every single comment we make with saying there are good men too. We know that. Our comments about putting men in their place only refer to men who aren't in their place. Our comments about keeping men out of our spaces only refer to men trying to get *into* our spaces.
If a man says 'women shouldn't cheat' then I don't take it personally as I'm not a cheater. If you don't trounce over women's rights then those comments aren't about you so don't take them personally.
Thank you to you and all the decent guys for your support. We know there are many, we are just busy focusing on the TRA element.
Thanks, joolzzt. I understand your explanation and mostly agree with you. I wasn't being argumentative, I was just saying that us "normal" chaps are more likely to switch off if we're lumbered in with the badduns, which is how Alison in Oz's post reads when she uses the catch-all word "men".
Anyways, we're all on the same side, so I'll keep doing my bit whenever I can to resist the madness.
More like Heil-di's Bier Bar.