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The spa footage is enraging: that little smirk on the woke bro's face = 'Poor little cervix-haver doesn't yet understand this. I, Woke Bro, will explain all'. That's our future, right there.

That woman is an absolute shero - if she ever comes to the UK she can stay with me. I love her already.

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In most of these videos of men defending perverts to women the men are aggressive to women in the way they never would be to men. That thing of standing in the woman’s space and looming over her. Such typical male behavior designed to silence. The woman is heroic. I don’t think I could have articulated her argument so well under such pressure. Ovaries of steel.

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He really gets up close to her. I noticed that, too

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I also hate that these companies adopt these policies, whether by strong-arm pressure from LGBTQ organisations or because they think it's "kind", and then sit back while front-line staff, probably on minimum wage, have to deal with the fallout from REAL people who know what men and women are and aren't going to accept this nonsense.

It's also disingenuous to suggest that women can just "go in the men's" and that makes it equal. No it doesn't. A woman would be highly vulnerable in that situation. Not comparable at ALL.

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Yes, exactly 👏

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'Actually I'm a woman who knows how to stand up and speak up for my rights.' cue the same old worn out response, I'm sorry you feel that way, which she bats right back at him in the same condescending tone. 'You're sorry--you should be sweetie... It must be hard not being a real man -- try it.' I love this woman. Find her Glinner and get her on a Mess!

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The tone these nasty intel’s take is very telling. Free to be as insolent, rude and aggressive to women as they like. Nasty pieces of work and it shows they truly have been conditioned to place themselves above women and wish to disregard women and oppress, silence,dominate and control us. They have zero respect for women’s boundary’s. There’s also zero evidence they have done anything to justify such an attitude as they are born of women and then generally just feel entitled to leech off women and are incredibly needy of women’s attention. They don’t take well to being required to step up to obligations of manhood do they? Or be able to be gracious about the advantages they give to one another? Including permission to neglect and abuse women and often children and enslave us.

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So true, Kath. It's frightening and insidious. Makes me dream of scissors..

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😂

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I often think as they Wimbledon on “next time you grow a person inside you and squeeze it out of your knob...work and raise them I might bother listening”...but of course aid never say such a thing...

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Womble (or bleat ...whatever )on not Wimbledon 😂^

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HAHAHAHA "squeeze it out of your knob"!! More oughta say it, darn it!! HAHAHA and amazingly, I figured out the random Wimbledon ;)

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Yes, Graham! Do this! Do this now!

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Well done to spa lady! She is my new hero. Women and children should be allowed their own space without someone having their penis out! Begs the question - if they are trans - with dysphoria- why be exposing their penis for all to see? Power play?

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Thank you! My thoughts exactly. I'm inclined to think this case is more a case of sexual excitement from a prolonged flashing while also being in a women's place.

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That was no trans in there, that was an AGP!

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So he does this regularly!

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I think it might have been someone else.

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Durr me, I should have thought of that.

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Or it could have very well been the same guy.

It's sad that we have to consider this but here we are.

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I see you posted it.

Female penis. Yeah, what's the difference? Mouthfeel?

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This has been happening in the U.S. for quite some time. Before I went to the YouTube link of this incident I did a google search for ‘naked men in women’s changing rooms.’ A trip advisor review from November 7, 2018 came up regarding a Spa in Los Angeles California. A woman posted her experience where upon entering this Spa was told by a clerk that there was a Transgender male in the woman’s locker room. She initially had no objection to this justifying it by stating that Transgender surgery is expensive, therefore none of her business. But then she overheard this naked man talking with a woman in the showers saying that: “he had sex with one hundred women & was looking for a female girlfriend to share his time with.” He went on to describe various recreational drugs he uses to relax. At this point this woman realizes that this naked fully intact man is not Transgender & states: “He just seems to be a pervie.” She did speak to management & was told that according to law they can deny entrance to this person based on his behavior, not his gender. The woman thinks this is not fair as she is concerned for her safety as well as the safety of other women. But then states: I wouldn’t have minded if he was truly Transgender, & preferably without that wig that he took off to wash.” I am shocked at how easily women are willing to accept naked males into their personal spaces bc they just assume they are Transgender. They know young girls will also be present in those spaces. The woman in the video is my kind of woman & an inspiration to someone like me who is shy & avoids confrontation. Good on her! She is protecting all women & girls by speaking the truth!

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It was the same spa.

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Yes, I overlooked that. Didn’t notice until after I posted. I am glad you pointed that out. Thanx🙂

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I had read the same TripAdvisor earlier today.

Not only is this a problem for Wi Spa, it's an ongoing problem for Wi Spa.

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Allegedly Wi Spa says it CAN ban people for bad behavior. Clearly hitting on women with your dick swinging talking about the drugs you like and chicks you bang should be enough for sane people to say, "Sorry... it's not you... it's your BEHAVIOR."

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Your comment got me wondering if pedophiles plan this specifically because it's a place where they could plausibly be with young girls naked, an opportunity they wouldn't get in many public places... Brings to mind that terrible Jonathan Yaniv fantasy.

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Does a bear shit in the woods?

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Can I find radfems or GC women (or men for that matter) in Portland? I just moved here, and I’d love to know!

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I live in California but I think I can scare up some for you.

I also run a Facebook Page called Gender Heretics. Come find us.

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Brilliant - well done Graham. I want to be an official Scottish Witch. She'll need to tell us where we can all join. x

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"I see a dick. . . that tells me he's a man". . . there's absolutely NO way to argue with that. Mind boggling that people do!!! This woman is a legend. Get her on 'The Mess'... please :)

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It's kind of sad that the bar has been set so low we congratulate people for recognizing basic biology yet, here we are.

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Just penis’ innocently hanging about bared in women’s spaces. Let their lies, mind games and all these misogynists other bs and manipulations of reality begin, to enable each other. No pride or shame whatsoever.

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The instagram posts says that he took his penis and tried to get in a hot tub with a teen.

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"It must be hard not being a real man"

SHOTS FIRED! SHOTS FIRED!

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How dare these males tell us they know what it feels like to be a woman and then defend another male exposing his penis in a room full of women and young girls. You clearly haven't a clue what being a woman is like.

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This isn't the voice of anyone who knows anything about being a woman.

It's the voice of someone who swallowed one too many books on being a woman then regurgitated them back up with all the indexes missing.

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I pray this video of Wi Spa makes the rounds here in the US - if this doesn't elicit some Everest level peak trans, I don't know what will.

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It hit reddit on publicfreakouts, but moderators locked the comment section because it was not going well for the TRA's.

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Wo-bro has no mother, sister, female friends, charm, common sense, awareness of predatory males or perversion. He must live in la la land where he takes offense at misgendering over a man peacocking in front of women and girls. What a prick.

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Oh sorry, forgive us for misgendering (ie. correctly identifying biological sex) you, the fucking beard and moustache had me momentarily confused.

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That's quite alright - we all make mistakes.

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Is there another source for this? Sharing a Gateway Pundit article that uses the terms "soy boy liberal ‘male’" and "liberal white knight loser" might do our cause more harm than good.

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Where's the lie?

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Well, along with the "soy boy" thing being tedious bullshit, the TRAs are about as liberal as the stasi

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In the USA that TRA's are all solidly left wing.

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Hi Graham! I signed back up to tell you this. (Sorry I had to interrupt my subscription briefly- I was moving, and money was right).

There is a second video made by this woman. Here is the link: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CQfqaRDnS36/?utm_medium=copy_link

It’s possible you may be able to find her through that Instagram account; I’m not sure.

The second video shows more how extremely angry all the other women are. Also specifies the ages (8 and 14) of the two minor girls in the spa.

Some more facts: Wi Spa mandates full nudity in the the men’s and women’s spaces. There is a mixed-sex area where people wear light clothing. This male person chose to go into the women’s section.

The same spa came under fire three years ago, in 2018, when a male person bragged fo a woman about his over-100 sexual conquests of women, and said he wanted to get laid, while walking about around women and girls completely nude. The spa defended him, and said they had to let anyone who self-IDs as the opposite sex into opposite sex spaces.

The spa also has signs which say males going into the female spa area to flash or peep at nude women and girls will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. Apparently, that notice is still up, as the other woman in the second video mentions.

The spa has not informed anyone they’re now allowing males in. They have not changed their policies, as other spas in a similar legal bind, to require at the very least bottoms be worn.

Not even telling women before they are nude or bring their little girls nude into an area where a naked man might be is truly terrible. I’m assuming it’s because they’d lose business, and they’re hoping to slide under the radar. I’m glad they’ve gotten exposed in this fashion, if you’ll excuse the pun.

One of the top comments on the Instagram video is someone calling the Black woman protesting and standing up for the rights of women and girls a “person,” in quotes, while saying it’s typical she’s Black, and that’s why they’ll never support BLM. They also lie and say there were no children anywhere in the spa, despite not only the women’s testimony, but the little girl in the background of the video who looks about 8 years old. They also lie and say the transgender person in question had undergone bottom surgery, and did not have male genitals swinging about. This is one of the first comments on the video. Just wanted to point out the racist and gaslighting tactics so common to the supporters of this madness.

That said, it’s heartwarming to see Black, Asian-American, and White women all banding together against this nonsense.

I get the feeling the female manager in the second video would have sympathized more had she not been on camera. She needs to defend the spa upholding California law while in full view of the public eye.

Notice the men standing in the background doing nothing. All men involved either fought with the woman and called her the one in the wrong (the white man trying to “educate” her was priceless), or stood back watching. Not a single one spoke up for women’s rights and safety.

For people who act like Americans are Puritan, and Europeans are “comfortable with the human body:” first of all, nude spas are not ubiquitous in Europe, which has many disparate countries and attitudes ranging from conservative traditional to loosey-goosey liberal; secondly, most mixed spas have women’s nights; and third, rape and sexual harassment are an epidemic in “enlightened” Europe. This is not about Puritanism, this is about our safety. Last I checked, letting men get naked in public spaces with women hasn’t solved patriarchy- on the contrary, I’d guess, it’s made women feel pressured to go along, and also barred many women who are uncomfortable from these spaces.

And finally, the last kind of man we’d want naked around women and children is one who deliberately enters women’s sex-segregated spaces despite knowing how uncomfortable and unsafe it is likely to make the women in them feel. Wi Spa will lose business, and women are being chased out of another public space they’d previously enjoyed.

Can’t wait to hear Marion Millar’s Mess.

Btw, the Messes have been brilliant recently. Thanks for all your hard work, Graham. We feminist and GC women appreciate it so much.

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It's her.

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Oh yeah it is- I clicked on the wrong spot. I saw someone shared the link, but clicked the wrong profile somehow in Instagram? Idk, I never use it 😂

It’s definitely her! And she is very vocal about it! Good for her!

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I posted the tripadvisor review from 2018. This dude got in a hot tub with a young girl. God bless this woman and by the blood of Jesus she IS right to fight. In the first video you can see the women in robes who appear to have fled the locker room to support her. And ignore the racists saying they won't support BLM due to this. Those are trolls.

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"the white man trying to “educate” her was priceless"

You can see in his face that he's thinking about how he's going to be worshipped when this video is shared on reddit.

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