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Ah these comments are making me soppy again. Thanks so much everyone

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Read your comments on the other thread about the interview. Some nice ones there too!

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which thread?

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Thank you Graham for all you've done and continue doing. I feel the tide is turning. Cheer up, I've rewritten Billy Bragg's New England for you.

Was a caring man when I wrote this tune / Misogynistic now and a bit of a loon / People ask on twitter “what’s a woman and a man?” / I block them straight away / Just because I can

They loved me then as I love ME still / Used to put me on a pedestal / Now ask “what happened Bill?” / I don't feel bad about letting them know / That I’m still working class, now I’m off to my chateau

I don't want to change my mind / I'm not looking at the facts now / I'm looking the other way / I don't want to change my mind / I'm not looking at the facts now / I'm looking the other way

I hate the words they write to me / I close my eyes so I can’t see / The broken women they can’t mend / The children who just need a friend

I saw two famous stars last night / I pissed on them ‘cause they were only terfy shite / It’s right to piss on those who dare / Question me that I should care

I don't want to change my mind / I'm not looking at the facts now / I'm looking the other way / I just cannot change my mind / I am really in too deep now / So I'm looking the other way

Looking the other way / Looking the other way / Looking the / Looking the / Looking the other way / Fingers in ears la la la la la la (fade)

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🙂👍 Kind of expect that once the tide has gone out on transgenderism there will be many people with a great deal of egg on their faces.

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Identity bollocks indeed! 98% of women who've read a horoscope in a mag are WOMEN, not subhuman or Scientologists, Scottish women are WOMEN not sub human, Working class women are women NOT 'Rab C Nesbitt'. I am NOT a piece of meat whether u claim to be GC or TRAS.

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Your interview was good Graham. Trans activists will say he did this to himself, pity tears etc etc etc ... but they model themselves on domestic abusers and Putin in which any sign of the harm they have done you is turned into a sign of their rightness to bully. Those that still have humanity will see someone that has literally stood strong against a force 10 hurricane of bullshit and is still standing, because he stands on the rock of truth. I know the cost you have gone through to hold the line having done the same in family court ... I salute your courage, dignity and the fact you won't back down in the face of weazil liars. There is no good to be had from facilitating liars and people with severe mental health issues, even if it seems kind to do so. Its the equivalent of agreeing with anorexics that yes, if they think they are fat, then they must be and let's help them starve themselves to death. Sometimes you do have to be cruel to be kind when dealing with mental illness, social contagion and just bullshit bullying. Thank you for all you are doing at immense cost to yourself.

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You made me tear up too Graham, when I saw how emotional you became. You're doing a brilliant job at great personal expense, and I just want to thank you again for fighting so hard on behalf of women and girls everywhere. I hope this interview proves to be the first of many!

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Yes, there was a strong emotional moment. It was hard not to feel bitter at what it cost Graham just for telling the truth.

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Thank you Graham. I’m a survivor of sexual abuse along with several other women in my family (same perpetrator). We are all extremely worried about the erasure of female only facilities and care that we all need access to in order to feel comfortable and at ease. In fact my 74 year old mum is more than worried- she’s very scared that she may not be able to request female only care as she gets older. I also have friends and colleagues who have “warned” me to stay away from this topic despite being so personally affected by it. Your courage and resilience in taking on this fight along with all others who won’t be silenced means a great deal more than I can express. So, from myself, my mum, my sisters and my cousins- thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

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You were excellent and not just saying that. All of my favourite artists are risk takers but you’re doing some really bold shit right here. Kinda amazing

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Ah these comments are making me soppy again. Thanks so much everyone.

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Thank you Graham, for all you do for the cause. I feel the tide is slowly turning and that every time I speak out, which is becoming more frequent, it emboldens someone else to speak out too.

I have several friends who were very much on the fence a year or so ago who are firmly on the

‘terf’ now. Keep up this brilliant work ❤️

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This particular Democratic operative has spent five years writing memos and emails etc to "progressive" and "liberal" orgs and figures warning them that this EXACT moment was inevitable. All that most of them ever did was hiss and make the sign of the cross at me, or admit that the sports thing was messed up but they are too weak to speak up. A handful have followed me through cancellation hell, or caught up with me after they realized I was right. At every turn, I asked, over and over again, "have you tried polling this position? Have you knocked on doors in a swing district or done a focus group?" Of course, the answers were always no. It was not necessary to find out whether "sterilize kids," "put men in women's sports," etc were popular or unpopular because they were, yes, "on the right side of history."

And you know what? I can't prove it, but the pronouns disappearing from bios suggests that someone finally thought to do a poll and find out whether people are more or less likely to vote for someone with pronouns in Twitter bios, which is exactly the strong suggestion I made for five long years in the wilderness. But it's not enough.

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Graham, you speak for the powerless: imprisoned women who are locked up with intact rapists; women in mental health wards locked up with men; girls forced to share locker rooms with boys and adult men. Women who cannot speak up without losing their jobs thank you for it.

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As always, your interview is a keeper. Thanks once again for bringing so much to the fray, at considerable personal cost. When the history of this time is written, your name will stand out amongst the giants - Berns, Jackson, Harris, Clark, Bailey, Fanshawe, Yardley, Black, Forstater, Bell, and so many others who have sacrificed so much for, in many cases, decades, for women's and gay & lesbian rights.

That said, I must say that Skylar Gwynn can not be situated in such a group of "veteran LGB rights campaigners." By her own admission she only recently showed up for the party two or three years ago. My criticism of her supposed contributions are well known and borne out by the facts. So that I might avoid becoming like the Helen Sharp (Goldie Hawn) character who obsessed about Madeline Ashton (Meryl Streep) in Death Becomes Her, I'll show myself out now and leave you this:

https://youtu.be/cgKPNzJWNHk

And the chaser: https://youtu.be/s-pgK_Rvuwc

😉

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lols you crack me up Fred. This is brilliant

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lols you crack me up Fred. This is brilliant

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I'm going to stop saying "cancel culture" and start saying "Father Ted musical culture" until it opens.

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We need laughs. Rishi Sunak is the latest who can’t say the words Adult Human Female. Best he could do was - “what Boris said”

They should step outside of their egos and take a cold, hard look

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Yes because we are certainly taking good, cold, hard looks at all of them, on all sides and both sexes!! We will remember!!

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Thank you Graham ☺️ the Glinner substack was the first place I came to find people to talk to. And I felt so alone. I don't know what I would have done if this place wasn't here.

Now I've contributed to court cases, I've got a new twitter account to speak my mind to different organisations, written some feminist poetry and so on.

Thank you to you and the team for all you do ☺️

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Yes, yes, and I will gladly come to Britain to enjoy the Father Ted musical. I hear Ted is elevated to popedom, surely the pinnacle example of St. Peter's Principle.

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PP is the observation that : "in a hierarchy, employees tend to rise to the level of their incompetence". A boomer's reference.

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Ted has a humanity and fallibility that would be a good quality for a Pope. Not just a boomer's ref. We particularly liked mentioning it when sh*t bosses promoted merely through being time-served and completely clueless about people management were called Peter. Apologies to be so graphic, but other versions of or riffs on the PP that are easy to comprehend involve sh*t, and floaters (how some sh*t floats to the top).

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Well, he certainly would be an improvement on most of the other popes. And he knows how to "rest" funds in his bank account, so he's fit for purpose. Don't get me wrong -- I love long-suffering Ted, but he's no shining beacon. Can't wait for the Musical!!! The Father Ted sitcom got a lot of us through some rough times. We really need him now, more than ever.

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I'd just like to thank you, once again, for everything you do, Graham.

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You can have your drink(s) in celebration of the Nolan podcast, not in any trepidation whatsoever.

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Thank you Graham for your interview.

When you think what people get to do without it affecting their career, including actually assaulting people (Boy George, Cheryl Cole, Jamie Carragher spitting at a teenager, I could go on and on....) Not only not sidelined but on prime time family shows.

You say people can't change sex and you're cast out? It's like people can't face up to real issues so they invent them to look like they are doing some something worthy.

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I’m fairly new , I’m going to have to click on a lot of links , think I’ll need my hand held , even the stuff I don’t click on gives me the boak

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oh lord. good luck. you have an awful lot of reading to do and some of it quite confusing to a newbie, and an oldie alike! the aimee challenor piece is an eye opener, I think that was one of my first articles!!

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I’ve always been fairly accepting of folk ,live and let live but Jesus my eyes have been well and truly opened , especially under my well perverted government , the truly twisted snp

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Im all for indy and the SNP were my adored party. I made a sculpture of Mhairi Black and now I cannot stand to hear her neddy lying voice. Im so fuckin angry about this.

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Sculpture with pins I hope ! I’m all for Indy but not happening under this freaky mob

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I genuinely thought she was a breath of fresh air for the indy movement. Ive since heard her sell out lesbians, slag off her boss for giving her much needed style advice, gaslight women and rub kitkat crumbs into her gums. I cant even stand to hear her voice anymore. The sculpture wasnt that great anyway, I made her neck a bit short, but it was recognisable as her.

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