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One of the things that has me incandescent with rage about these pigs is when they say terfs have issue with "Trans PEOPLE". No we fucking DON'T. It's those fetishistic men, including most of those with autogynephilia and other perversions, who are utterly narcissistic in their determination to penetrate distressed women's and children's safe and private spaces etc.. And the disgusting women-haters who want see us to "get what we deserve" and subjugate our sex . It has nothing at all to do with women who identify as men (all young), or children who have been convinced their bodies are wrong the poor things. Get fucked AC.

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One reason I admire Magdalen Berns is that she would have told me I have a right, as well, to refuse to have a sexual relationship with a man calling himself a "lesbian." He was my husband, and his uncertified "therapist" sat across from me in her well-appointed Manhattan studio, explaining how exciting sex would be for me after this, if I didn't have such a "traditional" mindset. He just "needed" me to consent to role play in bed, because "he's really a woman." Ruth The Charlatan, as I call her in my memoir, also told me that my husband "had the generosity" (my ironic words) to try out an "open marriage" where he and I have our own separate sexcapades somewhere outside the home where we were raising 2 young boys. She called me "spunky," (her word) when I said I'm not into that, I regard it as a betrayal of my children to be looking to spend time away from them like that.

Lesbians like Berns, interestingly, were some of my biggest supporters, when I served the divorce papers in the mid-1990s. Comerford needs to lie down and take a nap for a couple of decades while the doctors work out their mistakes and the malpractice cases play out.

Ute Heggen, author, In the Curated Woods, True Tales from a Grass Widow (iuniverse, 2022)

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